Alright, so I'm actually friends with a girl now. Good news, right? Well, sortof. See, now, I'm having feelings for her. She's really nice, and funny, and smart, etc....... but I know you don't want to hear about that. Well, my problem is this: I want to ask her to a dance.

Now, I know, I know, I should just ask her, what's the worst that can happen, right? Well, one, I am extreeeeeeemly shy. Two, I always play out little scenarios ( i don't know how to spell that haha ) of what could happen when I ask her, in my head. And they always are bad ones. And number three, it's my grade nine grad. I know, It might not seem like a big deal to some people, but where I'm from, we go up to highschool after grade nine.

Anyways, to sum it up, I'd really like to ask my friend to the grad, but I'm afraid she'll say no because I'm not very good looking, ect, and that it might ruin our friendship.

thanks,
NSH

Does she show any affection in return//do you guys flirt when you're together?

The best thing would just ask her if she wants to go on AIM or something, and if she says no, just be like thats cool, I just wondered because we're such goood friends.

Good luck

__________________

well, that is another prob, I can't reeeally tell when people flirt with me, because it doesnt happen very often! :S we laugh with eachother, and we talk .....i dunno

You two talk, so while you two are talking just ask her, "So, there's a dance. Are you going with anyone yet? If not, would you like to go with me?"
Just force it out and ask her. It's not going to ruin your relationship so stop being so shy and just go for it or the chance will pass you by.

__________________


You could be my someone,
You could be my sea...

It's tough if she already sees you as a friend...getting her to see you as a romantic parter is taking a huge risk with your friendship (its happened to me before and the friendship i had with the person has always been sorta weird and a bit awkward since).

If you just wanna go to the dance with her...you could always go as friends.

__________________
http://www.betabloggers.co.uk/

Don't test the water just dive right in.

__________________

I did that once and got a broken nose for my trouble.