ok so me and my bf went out on a date last night and it was prolly one of the most romantic dates ive ever been on. we went out to dinner then walked around on the wharf, then got ice cream, and walked around the park and such. there was lots of hand holdng and it just felt great.

anywho we went over to some bacci ball courts (its an italian game...kinda like bowling). he was telling me how bacci was italian for kiss and we kinda sat there holding hands. then it got to cuddling and then we just kissed. however i had a vibe the first time that i wasnt doingi t right (i had never kissed before) so i kinda playfully giggled and pulled back some and told him that i kinda wanted to take it a lil slow. then we just kinda cuddled some more and i was "ok more bacci". so we got back to kissing and kinda ended up making out and when we finished we were talking and he told me how he had only kissed a couple times before (i thought he had never kissed before) and i told him it was my first time and he was like "yea i kinda figured that" but i kinda took it as "oh god did i suck or something?"

idk. thats not something i shud worry about right? is it possible to mess up ur first kiss? im feeling a lil embarrassed right now.

I think your looking into it a bit too much...i wouldnt worry. Relax

I'd relax I'm sure it wasn't bad. You're not going to be perfect on your first time.

I think he said that because you were a little nervous to kiss him at first. It's not because you sucked.
Don't read so much into it or get too anxious or anything. I'm sure you did just fine. Relax.

My first kiss sucked too. lol. It usually does for the majority of people.
But I have to agree with the others, maybe you're looking into it too much.
If he really likes you he'll be glad to teach you how to get better at it .

I'm going to agree with Kate.
Most peoples first kisses do suck.
So you have nothing to worry about.
Maybe he didn't mean the comment in an offensive way.
Don't worry about it.
If he really likes you then he'll forget about the first kiss and enjoy all the ones in the future!

Hey theres plenty more kisses to come dont worry about it

You probs just did fine

My first kiss was kick ass! I didn't even know the girl so it doesn't matter if I was bad! Gave her the tongue and everything.

It doesn't count as messing up if it isn't rape.

Definately. You have plenty of time to learn to kiss anyway. Plus if he's only kissed a couple of times before then he's hardly going to be a pro and able to say that you were bad.

trust me. he wouldnt really think about how "you sucked" at kissing.
he'd most likely be thinking about how you two finally kissed. eventhough it wasnt that spectacular.

Relax

well he sent me a lil text today saying that he really had a good time that night
so i think everythings cool. thanks for ur advice. i have a random Q though... "what goes through a guy's mind while he's making out?"

Depends....with your guy its probably something like "hey cool i'm making out...this is nice" .

Well, like everyone else said, it would be helpful to be relaxed and feel comfortable around the boy. I'm sure he didn't say what he said to hurt you or be bitchy. I'm sure he could just sense that you were nervous; which is really good, because he knows to be "gentle" with you.

My first kiss? Well I haven't had an actual proper kiss, which is a bit sucky -.-" and all I've participated in was the small peck on the lips. It sucked really and I'm nervous too about when my time comes, but you just need to take it one step at a time.