Alright so I just need to get this out of my system.

So I haven't dated a girl in three years and only had 2 serious relationships. The thing is I've lost serious emotion in girls. I mean, I'll think some girls are pretty, hot, etc...But I haven't been interested in a girl enough to be in a relationship with. In the back of my head I've been trying to get into this player type mode because I think that's what some girls expect of me whatever. I've been trying to get in the mindset of a player and it's not working for me. All the while trying to figure this out I've been mentally worn down.

It's just gotten to the point where I'm sick of and I cannot put enough emphasis under sick, of the hard to get game and all of that shit. I just want to find a girl who I like and who likes me back and no bullshit. Apparently that's like asking for the impossible.

I'm not having any evil thoughts or anything of the sorts it's just that I'm fed up with not being able to get with any girls I'm interested in. I'm at the point right now where I don't want to be the nice guy. I'm always nice to people doing this and that only to have it put right back in my face.

I'm sorry for venting guys and gals. I just cannot begin to tell you how much all of this has been on my mind. I needed to tell someone because my best friends could care less.

Thanks in advance.

Your not alone, I feel exactly the same way. I don't get why nice guys always get the short end of the stick. Forgive me for sounding childish but it's not fair...

No, you don't sound childish man. Completely understandable.

It is impossible, all women are unreasonable creatures that man can never truly form a bond with. Thus, your best bet is to ignore love at all and move on with your life. Hatred, boredom and lust are all acceptable motivators for your new future.

All the nice ones are taken leaving you with the anorexics and the one obssesed with torture.

Well I don't really agree with the all of them part. I believe there are some nice female specimens out there who are still available.

You've probably heard this...and it sounds tough...but you just have to be patient.
I went out with this 1 girl a long time ago..and after that it really sucked and I didn't really bother with girls anymore. And after I got over that I didn't really find a girl a I liked that much...until now. Took a while but ya know..now I really love my girlfriend, and I hope this keeps up.
So just be patient and itll be worth it.

Uh, what? You might as well be collecting fucking bugs, but specimens is still fucking creepy.

It sounded childish in my head lol :P

Vent time *Puts vent face on*

Why cant girls make up their fucking mind. I found this girl and loved her with all of my heart, she said she loved me back, a few months later she started getting funny with me and I asked her if she still loved me, she said not as much. Turned out she got bored with me and started liking some other guy, then my best mate, to be honest I wanted to rip his fucking head off. Get a fucking sword ram it through his heart and watch the life seep from his eyes. I would have cut out my own heart for her, and sometimes I wish I did...

I don't care about guys. I'm just like a duck, and boys are the water that rolls right off my back and are forgotten and never thought of again.
I figure, why care? There's others out there. Who cares.

all the decent ppl are on these forums tbh
none of then never live nehere nr me either
thats kinda annoying

Funny how that is always the case.

I don't really care about dating in general.

Hmmm interesting...

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