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Old 04-15-2008, 02:25 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Can never do it......
So a while ago I asked out a girl and went out with her for about a year. It's safe to say I loved her. Now we are really close friends. I've asked out one girl since then. I have a fear that I am going to get dumped again. which is eventually going to happen anytime but i can't pull myself to do it. My fear isn't rejection because if never been turned down.

So theres this girl and i can't pull myself to ask her out any advice?
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Old 04-15-2008, 02:32 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Grow some balls and just say something
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Old 04-15-2008, 02:34 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Can never do it......
Well what do you think is the reason you can't ask someone out?

Don't worry about getting dumped again because that could be prevented. You could only learn from your mistakes and that would make you a better person overall.

And so what if you get dumped? I'm guessing you are still a teen. It's not like you have anything to worry about.

So unless you get over the fact that you are bound to get dumped once in a while... you will get dumped. You just gotta get over that and believe that you'd do much better this time because of the mistakes youve done in the past, and if you did learn from those then probably you wouldnt get dumped nimore.

Get it? No? It's fine... I got confused by meself too. Haha.

Good luck though.

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Re: Can never do it......
Come on, everyone gets dumped sometime or the other. Ask her out, if she says no, go find someone else. If you make a big deal out of it, it'll hurt. Chill out about it, you aren't going to get married!!
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Re: Can never do it......
TESTICULAR FORTITUDE

But seriously..it can be hard. It took me a while to get the courage to ask someone out after this one girl...

I don't know what to tell you really, but if you really like the girl you'll get over it. It took me a while to find someone that I really liked..and then it didnt matter.
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Re: Can never do it......
Haha, Testicular fortitude.

But in all honesty, fear of rejection and being dumped than actually being rejected or dumped. Just do it and get it off of your chest. You'll feel releived with just an answer, and even better with a yes, correct? What've you got to lose?
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His Dignity??

But yea, im with everyone else, just do it.
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Re: Can never do it......
You don't know if you'll get dumped or not. Just wait and see what happens.
Don't be so pessemistic.
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