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There is this girl that sits beside me in one of my classes that i like. I want to talk to her and build up some sort of relationship, but i cant really. She doesn't talk much and is pretty unenthusiastic. She sits with me and my friends and doesnt say anything. I try to strike up a conversation and we talk a bit, but that isnt going anywhere.
Maybe she would rather work in class than talk? And she might be a bit intimidated if it's you and all of your friends? I dunno im not there in person.
Try developing a relationship outside of school. She may feel a lot more relaxed just you and her and no classes.
She might just want to concentrate on her work or her friends in class.
Try talking to her out of class, by the lockers or in the hallway. Just say, "Hey, you're in my class. What did you think of today's session?"
Then just carry on the conversation normally and if she's still unthusiastic she's not interested.
She could be really shy and altogether unable to talk to you. It might be because she likes you too, but it might just be because she doesn't know what to do around people - I have some friends that are like that.
You should try and make her feel confident talking to you. This would help your little dilema, but it could also help her with social skills too, which would be a plus. Make her laugh or get her intrested. Find out what she likes and see if you can stimulate some conversation through that.
Try adding her on Msn, or AIM? or whatever you have. It's possible that she is just shy, It's a lot easier and less nerve wracking to talk to someone over the internet. This way you can learn more about her and hopefully get to know each other and become better friends, then eventually have good conversations over the phone or in person.
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