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Well if you can help me I would like it but its sort of too late and i hope that typing it will make me feel better.
So Like a month ago I had a crush on this girl so I was hanging out with her a lot, but then my friend told me he liked her so I decided not to be mean so i left her to him. Afterwards she started to always look for me, always try and hang out with me, would call all my friends foul words and call me the only nice one. She would call me at 10 and talk t'ill 4 am about everything.
Me I was obviously oblivious and did not notice these things, but when i did i decided to be a good friend and not do anything to try and not ruin my friendship. Anyways my friend asked her out and she made out this real bad excuse for why she could not go out with him.
Well anyways im guessing at this time that she got over me and moved over to my other friend and then my other friend asked her out and she said yes. So now I thought i was over her but now seeing them together makes me upset. I know its selfish but it makes me sad seeing them together. Its making me sick...I have not slept a full night since(2 weeks ago)..I get 3-4 hours of sleep a night. The first few days I lost my appetite but got it back 3 days later which is good.
But I think I can get over them being together but the main thing that bothers me is that I feel like I lost 2 friends because now that they are going out I can have a full conversation with either of them because they are always together and end up making out or something so I just walk away.
Tomorrow I'm stuck with them to go to supper and a movie, I will be stuck in the middle once again.
Tell her how you feel. Obviously she likes you and wants something, but she didn't want to linger on something that couldn't happen. If you tell her how it is(which is of course, easier said then done) maybe she will get with you.
you're already better than him for letting her go in the first place. remember though, you deserve to be happy too. like that guy said, she's probably trying to move onto something else cause she thinks she cant have you. Its your turn to be happy. Tell her how you feel, but how you dont wanna hurt your friend. If he tells you she likes you back, then take the chance =]
Well, if he is truly your friend just keep it to yourself and talk to her if you still feel the same and she is single. Otherwise, don't go out and do stuff with them together because it will just end up fucked up. At best you just feel like shit and at worst everybody feels like shit.
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Against logic there is no armor like ignorance.
I can understand why its tough...but if they like each other you have to accept that otherwise your just gunna be stuck in this rut.
Remember there are always other girls to look at
You know what? Whatever you do, both of them are going to do exactly as they please. Trying and not getting what you want is just going to make things worse. Just keep a cordial relation with both of them; ignore them for the most but make sure you don't completely lose them. It'll be hard but you have to get over it!! and hanging out with them is just going to make it worse!
You know what? Whatever you do, both of them are going to do exactly as they please. Trying and not getting what you want is just going to make things worse. Just keep a cordial relation with both of them; ignore them for the most but make sure you don't completely lose them. It'll be hard but you have to get over it!! and hanging out with them is just going to make it worse!
well you're right when im at home i feel bad but when im with them i feel worse. Even if im doing something i like alot, when i went to eat ice cream, movies, even sports.
Get yourself some hobbies or something...go play a sport or do what you like wioth someone else. Some people who you're not close friends with, but you enjoy yourself with them. Like some random school friends. Helps in keeping your mind off things...
yeah yeah, he should definentally try meeting new girls. buuut if he really really likes her that much, then why hold it back? he should atleast tell her. then, if she likes him back, he can be happy, and if not, then atleast he knows for sure and try moving on for good.
Well, you lost your chance when you decided to avoid her, and now she's over you and has moved on with someone else because she's decided you don't like her that way. What other impression was she supposed to have when you avoid her?
You lost your chance and now she's with someone else so shut her out of your mind and forget about it. There will be other girls eventually.
Well, you lost your chance when you decided to avoid her, and now she's over you and has moved on with someone else because she's decided you don't like her that way. What other impression was she supposed to have when you avoid her?
You lost your chance and now she's with someone else so shut her out of your mind and forget about it. There will be other girls eventually.
actually i never avoided her.... I just never did anything....
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