Help!!!

bonkers92 · 04-19-2008, 11:02 PM

Ok, I;ve been going out with this guy for almost three week.s But I;ve been reeeeeeeally busy with my classes and all, and he comes to my colony only on weekends (he lives in a hostel far off). I have aboslutely NO idea why I don't want to talk to him on the phone or meet him, I've been avoiding him and all of my other friends. I just like sitting at home and relaxing. But I don't want to distance myself from him. He told my over the phone yesterday that he didn't think it was working and he's pretty pissed. I don't mind breaking up with him but I have a habit of rushing things (like I did when I said yes to him). I have no idea what to do now. Should I wait a while and see how things turn out? Or should I break up with him? HELP!!!

Confuesed_Friend · 04-19-2008, 11:03 PM

Well if you dont want to stay with him isnt it obvious what you should do?

Break up with him if you feel that is what you really want

bonkers92 · 04-20-2008, 02:36 PM

yeah but its hard. I usually do things in a hurry and then regret it l8r...I'm thinking I'll just carry on for a few more weeks but if it still doesn't work, I'll end it.

bonkers92 · 04-20-2008, 02:58 PM

I WISHED I wasn't in a relationship...I wanna fool around, this whole offical thing pisses me off...I want to tell my bf to stay away, but I dunno how to do it without hurting him. God, I barely know him!!! I don't know even remotely what might be going on in his mind, I'm not all that comfortable around him and I liked him for about a week, I don't even know if I like him anymore...It's only my first relationship!!

Plink · 04-21-2008, 08:57 AM

What I recommend you do is figure out what is more important and go from there. I'm pretty sure if you told your boyfriend and your friends then they would understand.

x-mercedes-x · 04-21-2008, 02:47 PM

If you don't want a relationship now then it's unlikely you will in a few weeks and chances are if you keep pushing him away he'll end it himself. You need to make up your mind and stop messing him about.

denial1130 · 04-21-2008, 03:19 PM

Like you said, your impatient, and your avoiding him becease you dont have time but also because your a little scared. I suggest if you like ur relationship u try to work it out, because if you do and decide to break it off itll hurt you more than itll help in the long run. Do wat you want, whatever u feel for comfortable with

bonkers92 · 04-21-2008, 03:59 PM

thnks guys =) il talk to him and sort things out