Anyways, I'm in grade 10 and there's this girl I like. Also, I'm about 90% positive she likes me back, so I've decided I'm going to ask her out, probably sometime this week. Probably to the movies (Is this something that's considered clichéd these days?), as I figured it'd be a good idea for the first date. Also, what's the best type of movie to go see? (horror, romantic comedy, etc.)

Another question I had was I was wondering how much, well, touching should there be on a first date? We've known each other for about a year and a half, but have never really physically flirted.

Just a few other questions:

1)Is the movies a good first date?
2)What type of movie should we see?
3)How much touching should there be?
4)What day of the week should I ask her? (I'm asking her out for Saturday night, and we have no school Friday)
5)Is asking her to come to my house to watch Star Wars a cute idea?


Really, right now I need something to do before I ask her out because I'm really excited, so figured I post this here.

p.s. I know I'm operating completely on assumption here, but as I said, I've got a pretty strong feeling she's not going to reject me.

1. Yes. It's public, which is good. If you can, try to make it a double date. My first date was, and it turned out more fun that way. The movies is a bit cliche' but easy to make it seem trivial, and not like you're trying to have sex on the first date.

2. Comedy or Horror. Trust me dude.

3. Kissing, making out only. Any further gets you a nut-shot, unless she's really easy...

4. Saturday/Friday

5. Wait until you become more serious to do that stuff. It's kind of weird for a first date, or even a third or fourth.

Thanks for the answers. I think a double date is definitely doable, as I have two friends who are dating that this particular girl is friends with too. I assume I should ask them earlier in the week?

I'll probably be asking Thursday, as I said I wouldn't be seeing her Friday or Saturday, and I'd rather ask her out in person (unless someone would advise against this).

That really wasn't the answer I was expecting. Honestly, I probably wouldn't want do make out with two of my friends so close-by. I was expecting just sort of "put your arm around her" kind of stuff.

Yeah, I meant later, probably when/if we actually consider ourselves girlfriend/boyfriend.

For the kissing thing, don't do it unless you're 100% sure she wants to. If not, yeah just put your arm around her. By kissing I meant if she allows, and somewhere towards the end of the date. But if she's kind of akward about it, wait a few more dates.

1)Is the movies a good first date?
Yes stick with the movies.
2)What type of movie should we see?
Depends on the girl but comedy is usually pretty safe.
3)How much touching should there be?
I'm assuming you want a relationship with her SO there should be toucing. You have to play it by ear as for how much but hug her when you meet her and do things like touch her hair, back of her arm etc. Obv. if its awkward dont she'll think your weird.
This touching is important because if you want to go for the kiss towards the end, it'll be weird if you've had no physical contact before.
You must build it up.
4)What day of the week should I ask her? (I'm asking her out for Saturday night, and we have no school Friday)
Sooner the better before she has another offer
5)Is asking her to come to my house to watch Star Wars a cute idea?
Not for the first date

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1)Is the movies a good first date?
Imo, take her out to dinner first. Why take her to a place where you can't talk at all and learn things about her? Just my opinion though

2)What type of movie should we see?
Horror or Comedy. Or other depending on her taste

4)What day of the week should I ask her? (I'm asking her out for Saturday night, and we have no school Friday)
Early to middle of the week. You don't want her to make other plans and look like a jackass when she says she's busy

5)Is asking her to come to my house to watch Star Wars a cute idea?
Hell no

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