Okay one of my friends (not a best friend) went out with this guy. She completley fuked him over, i mean completley, she slept with a 13 year old behind his back, and to give him credit he forgave her, but they broke up a while after.

That was like 2 weeks ago yeh?
since then i've gotten really close to him.
he's so fuked off at her because tbh she treated him like shit.

but now he goes to me look i really like you.
and tbh i really like him too.
I mean i really really do.

But i've spoken to her about it not wanting to be backstabbing & behind her back & shes all like...

besically, if you go near him, il never speak to you again you backstabbing bitch. and then she goes..
i would never do this to you.

but the thing is i dont see why he should have his future relationships fuked up by a girl who fuked him around.
and i dont see why she wont understand.
i dont want her to hate me, i just want her to understand how difficult this decision is...


if i chose him, im gunna get all of her black (no offence) mates on me, and they have the whole attitude, clicky finger in your face thing going on.

i have no idea what to do...

if i go with him, she & her friends will hate me.
and me and him have done nothing wrong
SHE fucked him about.

am i being totally unreasonable?

please people,. seriously help me?
i can't do this..

If you like him, then date him. If she's such a back-stabber and a hypocrite lecturing you on how you shouldn't date him and how it's wrong when she's the one who completely crushed his heart and did what she did, then she's not worth your time and she doesn't deserve him or you as a friend. And if her friends and her get on you tell the Principal and a Techer who will listen and if they harass you then you can always bring the Police into it and I garuntee you after that they won't bother you.
If she doesn't like it that's her problem, not yours. You two like each other, so there you go. Go for it. Don't let anything stand in the way of what you want.

I have been in a similar situation i endend up going out with the girl and my "mate" told me to fuck off

If she doesnt understand than shes not really your friend im afraid

Follow your heart. (:

Screw everything else.

But at the same time, you're quite young and there would be more guys that you would meet that you would fancy. You can just turn down his "offer" and stay friends with him, and wait for another great guy to come your way. This option would encourage your friendship with your mate and her friends.

For me, I would not date someone that my friends have dated before. There's always going to be that little awkwardness there, eventhough if my friend tells me it's fine. I won't really trespass on my friends' "property", considering the fact that there are indeed, other nice ladies out there.

So... idk really. I'm torn on these things.

If she treated him like that then she has no right to claim some kind of ownership over him and forbid you from seeing him, i mean, clearly she doesn't care about him that much. If you honestly think in your heart that he's worth possibly losing this friend, then you should go for it.
But maybe you could wait a little while? For a few reasons - it'll give you a chance to get your head around it, it'll give your friend time to calm down a bit and most importantly it will see if he's really as serious about this as he says. If he's just come out of a rough relationship he could be a bit mesed up and not really know what he wants tbh.

she seems like a big stuck up, whorey bitch. forget her. if she cant handle it, and breaks off your friendship because of it, then she really isnt even your friend. go for the guy.

If she cheated on him she has no right at all to try and prevent you and him from dating.

i hate niggers like that

you shouldnt let your friend run your life and i think you should go to your friend first and ask her why the hell she thinks its ok for her to cheat on him and its not ok for you to just date him.
she gave him up so why can't you pick him up

I would say ... that you should think about it for a few days or so... Accept it if you really want to.. Fuck your friends you can easily make more!

If he takes the thinking about it as a no then fuck him.