Hey, (sorry about the novel lol)

Well, I only just joined but I wanna get this out to someone lol. So maybe a few months ago I met a new girl and grew fond of her quick, we went out for about a month then broke up just over a month ago. We remained as good friends which is great. Bout a week after, my best mate and all of us went out, and on the way home he played 'Spin the Bottle' and you could tell he only wanted one thing, so him and my ex kissed pretty full on in front of me. This in itself was hurtful to me, and I got pretty angry at my mate about it, but we worked it out. Since then it's only built and now they have the hots for each other but only a "phsyical relationship", meaning no attachments just dirty talk/MSN cam etc etc (probably because i'm in the way anyway). All this went on without my best mate saying anything about it to me, and getting little from my ex, which is the little I know. Now she's scared that her feelings will become more than "physical", and he keeps wanting all these 'casual encounters'. I guess i'm jealous, but is he really as good a friend as he thinks he is for doing all this? Not only for doing it, but keeping as much as possible from me?

Thanks,

Matt

Ah. He's a lousy friend that's it.

There's nothing wrong about you being jealous, after all she's still is your ex. In my opinion, it is disrespectful of him to even kiss your ex, eventhough you two arent dating anymore. I mean come on, bro's before hoes right? Ex's should be off limits.

What's worse is he has a "physical" relationship. That's bullcrap. Either the two of them just don't really care about each other, or they do like each other but are just putting up this front so you won't know.

If it's the first case, then you know they'd wanna bone each other or whatever, after all it's "physical". If it's the second case then it's not really that good as well, because, you know...

Shit, imo you should dump both of em and disassociate yourself away from them as best as you can.

Thanks for the quick reply!

As for dumping em, I think i've made my thoughts pretty clear with my best mate and we havn't really spoken since I did that....I just don't know if I could disassociate myself with Jess (my ex) as me and her get along so well and I just don't want to lose her, as a friend.

Lad,

Did you ask her why she's doing this thing? It's just not right.