im a sophomore in highschool, and im having some girl trouble. Im nice, kind, an always go out of my way to help people out. Im not a video game nerd, but im not the coolest guy either. I play sports an hang out with my friends all the time. My problem is I always get really nervous around girls. I just think that whatever i say will make me sound like an idiot. I basically have zero confidence when it comes to girls. I want to meet girls for relationships and for friends

There's a girl that I like a lot. I have no idea how to approach her. She is never by herself. I have tried to start a conversation, but It always becomes awkward really fast.

does anyone have any advise. If any girls have advise, that would be great, obviously because you know exactly what you would want a guy to do.

Just do it, man. Not matter how stupid you sound, she's not going to give a damn if she likes you back. Just do it, it not going to harm you in anyway and you'll probally laugh it off even if you do something stupid.

Get stoned and then approach her you 'll have no problem talking but make sure you have a friend around incase you get out of control

"Im not a video game nerd" Has nothing to do with it.

As for the confidence issue. What I recommend you do is just talk to many other girls. Even if you have no interest. Thing is, not every girl you walk up to is going to drink your koolaid. The more and more you talk to girls even for just friendly chat, you'll figure out what to say and what not to say.

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try them ^^

whats a good way to break the ice with a girl?

the only reason i said I wasn't a video game nerd, was because I have friends who are, and it ruins their social life, so, yeah

When you interact with girls, just talk to them just like how you can talk to guys. Break the gender barrier and just consider everybody human beings.

I personally have no trouble interact with most girls ever since I got out of junior elementary. For some reason, I always find it very hard talk to the girl that I like. I always find it nervous especially if I did not start the conversation

Actually, a lot of guys I know have this problem. Shyness around women is common if you haven't talked to girls a lot before... But you can gradually get over it.

Just start by waving hello everyday when you see a girl you know, even if it seems stupid or unnatural. Force yourself to smile a winning smile, and 100% of the time you will get a smile back; girls are nice like that. A few days later start saying hi, or hello to everyone you meet. Again, winning smile.

Btw, don't get stoned. But you don't seem like a stoner anyway. ^_^

Continuing... that advice up there about talking to a lot of girls is good advice, the more you get used to having a casual conversation with girls, the less they seem like aliens from another planet and more like people that you can talk to.

Girls that always hang out with their friends are... difficult. .___. I know. If you can, get her phone number (break the ice with a cheesy pickup line or something, but in a joking manner) and ask her for a date, but don't make it sound like you have romantic intentions already... More like "Hey, you wanna go get some Starbucks with me," and less like "Oh Diane, will you please go out with me to dinner?" It is important that as soon as you guys start talking you ask for that date, because otherwise you will get stuck in a girl's dreaded 'friendzone,' which is a real annoying situation (I am in like 10 past crushes' friendzones -_-).

If you get a date, you will probably be alone, unless your girl is a clueless idiot who brought a friend or is jabbering into her phone. Now you guys have some time to talk, get to know each other, etc... Halfway in, ask her to be your girlfriend, do it nicely and honestly, say what you feel, not what you saw in a movie, or what some guy on an online forum told you to say .

If it went well, great, if not (she says something like "give me some time" or another form of "maybe", which = NO), then remain friends and go for other girls. Every guy likes more than one girl at a time, there is no way that a guy can like only one girl.

Hope that helps, it's roughly what I told Andrew to do, and it worked for him (at least up to the phone numbers and date part, although he got rejected on the whole 'girlfriend' thing because he's kind of ugly).

P.S. Girls are entirely different beings when they are around friends... they won't smile or say hi to you unless you say hi first, unless you are good friends; they won't seem as warm and treat you like just a 'guy' and not Jay, or whoever you are really. They laugh a lot more, and it is awkward to talk honestly with one because there are five others that stare at you and listen eagerly, ready to explode into laughter as soon as you say something. For gods' sakes, become friends with the whole group of girls she hangs out with, or get her alone. Usually walking with her and her group, greeting her, then tugging her gently and asking 'hey can I talk to you over there?' will get her to follow you and her friends probably won't, although they will stand where they were and stare at you guys, pointing and whispering to each other behind their hands, visible out of the corner of your eye, which still makes it uncomfortable because you are trying to talk to your girl while at the same time wondering what kind of things they are saying about you. So... if you get a moment alone, DO NOT WASTE IT. ^_^

P.P.S. Having a girl will pretty much take the rest of your time away, as it will be devoted to her. This may or may not be as enjoyable as a normal social life. If she's awesome, or is having sex with you, then it's probably going to be better. But as for me, some girlfriends were a drag; I'd had more fun with my homeboys in cross-country and our friends in hip-hop club more. Then again other girls are awesome and you don't mind being away from your sports team and friends. If at any point it gets boring, call it quits and justify yourself with the fact that teenage relationships are not meant to be permanent, and that you are not in fact oath-bound to stay committed, but can break away at any time.

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yeah, its mainly hard because it seems like a weird thing to do, in my opinion, even if its not. I just really have a hard time getting to know girls who are NEVER by themselves. This one girl I like always with someone else, so I can never really meet her. Does anyone have any suggestions on meeting a girl while she is in a group with other people?

Get rid of that, it wont get you anywhere with girls. They put effort into how the present themselves they want a challenge.

what do you suggest?

If you be to nice or go out of your way with girls you will be seen as a friend and not a lover. Im not suggesting anything cause i dont no how you act around girls. But i wouldnt advise being overly nice and a pushover. It isn't what girls a looking for even if they say "I want a nice guy" it doesn't mean that.

Women are attracted to Men. Men who act like men. Simple Logic.