I've been in a relationship for about 2 years, it has been long-distance for about 7 months now and I don't know what to do anymore. I am in love with him! We have been in love for as long as I've known him, but since the move things have been really difficult. I mean we talk abd chat all the time and send gifts and I had plans of comming home in the summer but things have come up and I wont be able to see him. I really don't want to leave him but not being able to see him and hold him is driving me insane! I don't know what to do anymore...

have you told your parents about this guy?

speak to him about maybe comming to see you

my boyfriend moved to manchester, i told my parents about him and hes coming down next weekend
so id say speak to your parents about this guy, and if they approve why not ask him to come down?

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lets write a song that we can dance to.

dont give up on him. long distances are always hard but if you really feel that strongly then you should be able to feel him there with you when you talk to him and know that he cares by the tone in his voice. i know that it can be very tough to let them be far away from you but the fact is that you both care about eachother.

I just got done with some long distance crap.. Don't jump to conclusions and break if off if you really love the guy and it sounds like you do. If it's going to work both sides need to contribute the necesary effort, for example, why can't he come to see you instead of you returning home to see him. Have your parents talk to his, if you can convince them that you're madly in love and need to see each other I bet they can work something out maybe a set of dates, one month he comes to see you, next month you go home to see him. Effort is key absolutly nothing comes from sitting around.. well getting fat and lazy does but that's beside the point.

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my girlfriend and I are in long distance too and she became my girlfriend one time when i just came to visit her, which means our relationship was allways long distance. the most important thing is to never give up on it, because as long as your love to eachother is big you won't stop loving eachother even if you don't see eachother for 10 years. when you finish high school and your adults one of you should move permenently to where the other one lives, and then you can live together, and if you stop loving eachother before that it will just mean that you didn't truely love eachother so there is nothing to worry about. in my case the college im gonna go to is in my girlfriend's country and it might even be the same one she is gonna go to.
you should also try visiting eachother oftenly. like whenever one of you goes on a vacation somewhere it should most of the times be to where the other one lives.

i hope it helped, and sorry if i wrought too much!

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limozines.....

there awsome!!!!!!!

Dont give up. Keep on trying to make the relationship work. Long Distance relationships arent easy by any stretch but they can work. Im in a long distance relationship right now and hopefully we'll be getting married next year so its proof that they can work. But as people have said, you gotta work hard for em. Good luck to you both.