'allo.

So I wrote about this earlier but I have an update. Long story short, I really had a crush on this guy who asked me to come to his pool party.
The party was really fun and I feel like he opened up to me a little bit when we were talking. I was super happy when I left (and I got to give him a hug on the way out).

At school on Monday, I was shocked, because he totally avoided me. I mean, he definitely looked at me, because we sit across form each other in Jazz and we kind of stared at each other. It was totally awkward.
So that night, I decided to IM him on facebook. I said hi, and we talked for a little bit. He asked me what I was up to, and if i was ready for our jazz concert on saturday. And then he said he had to go study for History. (In all, i felt good about the chat.)
Then today, he totally ignored me and didnt look at me at all. When we were the first people to get to Math, I said "When does this class start? Isn't everyone late." And he was like "yeah," and then walked outside onto the balcony of the math room.
It was just really awkward.
I want to start talking to him more, because I really really like him, but I have no idea if he Really really likes me or really really doesnt. I mean i dont think his feelings towards me are ambivalent because of the awkwardness.

Also to keep in mind, when he invited me to his party (that had 3 girls at it) we were only acquaintances (not friends at all).

Do you guys think he likes me? Are we ready for a date? And why isnt he talking to me or responding to me? Is it weird for girls to make the first move?
AGH
i just want him to talk to me. gr

I understand your problem, but I don't understand why he's being so...strange. O_o

So, since the party, he's been fairly distant to you?

Does it seem like he's more shy in real life, and talks more online? Or is he just overall being ignorant?


I honestly can't tell if he likes you...O_O

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Yeah he has been kind of distant.
I never got the vibe that he disliked me though. I feel like we haven't gotten the right opportunity to talk. But today when we did get the chance, I was shocked that he just walked away.

I have 5 more days when I have classes with him until summer. I want to hang out with him over break. How can establish a relationship this fact.
I mean considering I was one of the only 3 girls who showed up at his party, I mean that makes me a somewhat good friend right?

Guys are hard to read. I would say he has an interest in you since he invited you over, but maybe he's a little distant/acting strange because you seem too interested in him?? Guys definitely don't like it when girls seem too interested. Even the shy guys... if they like you, they won't let you pass by. But from what you've said, it doesn't seem like you're really throwing yourself at him, or being too forward, so I don't know? If it was me, though, I would back off. I wouldn't be the one to i/m him first, or talk to him first, because you've done that now, so it's his turn. (and it will probably make him more interested if it seems you are going on with your life and your life isn't revolved around him right now).

He's probably shy talking to you in real person because he likes you. I'd ask one of his friends if he likes you or not or just straight up tell him.

Eh, don't rush things.
Going out before a prominate friendship doesn't build much ground for you. I would get to know him more.

He is being kind of strange.
It isn't right for him to be ignoring you in a crowed full of people, yet then talk to you outside of it. Doesn't make sense.

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Yay! okay thats for your comments.
I have an update!
So today we were at this school event and not many people showed up. So he was talking to me alot. and then he came to sit next to me! I am so happy!
Then the advisor/teacher was about to start a screening about break dancing (which totally doesnt appeal to me). and the guy was like "so do you think you are going to stay."and i was like "i dont know maybe...are u?" and he said "ill probably leave in the middle since i have math homework." and then i said "hmm. well i guess i'll have to see how the movie goes."
and i hated the movie. so i left in the middle, hoping he would follow me out or something, but he didnt. i waited outside for a while, hoping he would come out and offer me a ride home, but he never came out. i guess i cant blame him for that lol. just wishful thinking.

but
YAY!
so we are at the friends stage right?
and who makes the next move?

Give him a few days to reply, make next move, but keep going on with talking to him.

If he doesn't, then it's your turn.

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