So last night, I had my Prom night. It was fantastic in the first part from the point I came to her house till the middle of the event. Everyone cheered me up when I came into the room. Then, when we dance, 2 times I was the center of the dance floor. I was once lifted up and passed into the air. It was so cool. However, that good time ended surprisingly after I became the Prom Prince. During the first part, I talked to my date a lot. We took photos, came to say Hi to people together, dance together... However, somewhere in the middle of the event, she seemed like she did not dance with me a lot. Anyway, she said she had a fun time with me.


After prom, we went out to a restaurant, we talked, eat then came to a friend's house to watch a movie. She left at around 2 am. I said good night to her.




After she left, I decided to text her to tell her that I love her ( For the first time in my entire life). She replied as :"Aw, thanks. I hope you are glad that you went with me to a dance". Then I asked her:" Did you know what I really mean ? I mean I like you, a lot". This morning, she replied me:" I understood you. We can talk tomorrow. See ya at Darien Lake"


What does she really mean here ? Does she like me ?

It means what it means. Theres no science behind it. Go to Darien Lake and see what happens from there.

Oh and congrats on having a good time. I had a blast at my prom too.

Btw, what school do you go to if you don't mind me asking.

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Why did she change like that ? Did I do something wrong ?

I cannot decode what she meant by the tone she used in those messages.

I am going to Charles Finney school in Penfield, NY.

How should I face with her tomorrow

I'm from NY too. Rep Chittenango.

Anyway the reason why she may have changed slightly is because she may not have been expecting you to say that. You didn't do anything wrong. The only thing you could have done wrong is misrepresenting your feelings which you didn't so you have absolutely nothing to worry about. Some people get uncomfortable if people are that open. Just go and chill with her but try not to be too clingy. Just be casual. The clingy thing is major. I'm not making the assumption that you will, all I'm saying is she may be a little fragile (if you get what I mean) when you talk to her. A clingy guy can end things quick.

Just be yourself and try not to focus on how much you like her. The harder you focus on how much you want to date her the less likely it will happen. You need to have your head in the right place.

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Can you be more specific ? I don't get what you mean ?

Here is an update:

I am just back from the field trip. It was freezing cold there. When we arrived, she saw me and called my name and that's it. After that, I came with the same group she was in for the whole time but she did not have any ride with me. After the first ride called Boomerang, she asked if I liked it. I said Yeah and told her that my ears were frozen. She did not say anything. From then on, we did not talk even when we were really close to each other.

The next time she said something to me was when we were waiting for Mind Eraser. She asked if it's warmer in Vietnam now. I said yeah and that's it.

During lunch, we sat opposite to each other but did not talk. After she got dirty by the food ( a plate got blown up and landed on her). I got some napkins and wiped out her shoes and her sleeve.

The last time she talked to me was when we were at school. She asked if Elisha told me how would she want the Science Fair project paper gonna be written. I asked her:" Did she tell you ?" She replied:" Yeah but not specific". She told me:" Can I write about the wing part ( we are doing aerodynamic of gliders in wind tunnel) ?" I said:" You can do whatever you want"

That's the end of the day. She did not talk to me. Instead, she was talking to her ex ( he was in my group too) and her closest friend (Sarah) and other guys. She tried to ignore me or something like that. I feel like we now return to the pre prom problem of talking. She did not mention anything about those messages at all. She did not mention about prom,...

What is the story now ? What should I do ? Kill myself ?

At this point, I think you should just give her some space. I read both of your updates, and thats the best conclusion I can give.

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Any more suggestion ?

Since the seniors are on senior trip now, we have the privilege to go out for lunch. Should I take this chance to ask her out to lunch ?

We are also off from school from Friday till next Tuesday. Should I ask her out to movies then ?

wow okay just confront her. Even if its too hard.
if you dont say something, she wont either. so ask her about it!
she sounds like shes either scared or nervous, or she just wants to avoid it as much as possible cause she doesnt feel the same way about you.
find out what she thinks first.

what do you guys think she likely thinks now : scared, shocked or she does not feel the same for me ?

She might not be ready for a new relationship... i think you have to give her more time

just always be there for her.. will show her how much she mean to you =)

Maybe you are right.

Today, I went out to lunch with her and 2 other friends. We talked like normal. Then after, we talked about trigonometry ( I helped her with that) and science fair project. However, she was not totally back to normal. She did not ask me to do trigonometry with her like she did last week. It's ok

Is this a better sign ?

I think I will keep like this for a while and try to show her that "how much she means to me" and " always be there for her"

Honestly man, I think you are overthinking this waaaaaaaaaaaaaay to much. It could be just me. Just act casual and be yourself.

Concerning my previous post, in a nut shell it means that when you said you liked her she was shocked a little and women tend to look at someone different when they open up to them.

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How different she is looking at me now ?