So I'm 17 and im a late bloomer i guess because I only got boy crazy this school year... but now I realize I have no idea what to do. I mean I have some friends that are boys in school, but I don't like them that way so im comfortable around them, but the boys I think that are cute I am so shy and I don't know what to say. I have never had a boyfriend (shoot me, I know) lol... and it has nothing to do with my looks because I consider myself sordof attractive (not being conceited or anything)
I think my problem is that I am mean/sarcastic to the guys I like because I am scared that if I flirt It might be too obvious and it would scare them off? I don't know... help?

just try ur best to calm down and not be nervous around guys. i have the same problem except with girls. i just try to calm down and try not to think about the fact that im talking to a girl i like.

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i don't know boys are confusing as hell.
but i hear they like alot of confidence in a girl but not over confident if you know what i mean.. just be really cute and sweet about it.

good luck anyways.

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Well, depends on how do you want them to look at you.
If you want them to have wet dreams about you and think about your fuckability just wear tight shirts, short dresses and bend over a lot. :P
If you want them to be attracted to your mind/perosnality just try to, as the second poster said, calm down and talk to them normally, if you hear them talking about some subject that you know of, just voice your opinion.

If you don't know the person you like, it'd be good if you at least once cought (is this the right word?) an eye contact with them and then smile. It'll help them understand that you like them and whether they're attracted to you or not, guys still like attention so they will think about you and there's chance they'll consider you as a possible girlfriend.

Generally, I think it's good to let the guy know you're attracted to them (not by telling, tho!), if they like you (or could like you) the same way, good. If not, at least you didn't spend too much time chasing after them.

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Mariami pretty much covered it eh.

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Dont take advice from guys about how to attract guys. Find a girl who knows her shit and get her to teach you stuff.

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G'day.

Just be calm natural and confident. if you really like him just ask!

Guys sometimes be a bit thick so you have to be right up there talking and chatting with them

You know joke around with them show them you can be someone who they can enjoy hanging about with, be friends with them first

i find it easier to talk and connect to people with these kind things if there friends more than strangers.

yea, thanks mariami
the reason why im at a lost is because i just missed out a chance on this guy I have been liking all year and he is graduating now... and now I've come to realize he probably did like me but i stayed away thinking he didnt like me because he use to talk about other girls.

oh and i really need to work on being sweet, most of the times im sour lol... is that something that i can chance or is that just my personality? I don't know maybe its because schools just been really hard this year (curricular wise).. hmm im going to experiment during my summer vacation, im going to another country to visit family and ill flirt with the guys at clubs and see if it works because its not like ill see them again