T.N.T

well i want to know wats ur take on this...is there such thing as just goin out with your best fwend coz you both know each other and you just want someone to love so you use each other?

good or bad? what do you think?

The Wolf

Well my take just depends on your definition of "friends with benefits." If it's just someone you go places with (movies, mall, or just hang out) then I don't see a problem with it. You're still basically just friends. If the "benefits" evolve into something more physical I disagree with it. It can turn into an ugly situation. He/she could end up falling for him/her when he/she just wants the "benefits" and not the relationship.

sntgld

I agree, quick way to ruin a good friendship as once the 'benefits' stop it could get awkward and never go back to how it was before. Why complicate things? Also if someone was out to 'use' another person, surely the last person they'd feel comfortable using would be their own friends.

Personally, I have like a brother/sister type of relationship with most of my friends so it'd be like incest >_<

dertysv.jop9

Hi, it was a fantastic dating advice that you shared with us.
Thanks a lot!

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T.N.T

yeah same here i have a brother/sister relationship but sometimes they end up wantin to be more then just close fwends and sometimes i dont want that and this one tym i actually lost that fwend coz he cldnt handle being around me and not being able to be like a bf to me...so i let it be...then a month later being now i find myself with him...