Alright...for some reason, my crush has been acting much friendlier to me out of nowhere. Now she smiles and waves at me EVERY time she sees me, she's been looking at me a lot more, talking to me more, calling me by my name (she never used to for some reason), and a few days ago in study hall, we were sitting at different tables and so she went up to the librarian and asked her if she could sit with me.

Normally, I would think that she's just getting to know me better and stuff. But this wasn't gradual, it was very abrupt and out of nowhere. I've been acting the same as always. And her and her boyfriend seem to be ok. I don't understand. I like it though


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See where it goes. Don't ask her out or accept being asked out unless she's broken up with her boyfriend though. She could just see you as a close guy-friend, or there could be something going on with her boyfriend and she likes you more. Who knows, hard to tell. Just keep being yourself

good luck

But we're not close (at least not yet, anyway). That's the thing. And she doesn't have any guy-friends other than her bf (and her bf's friend, I guess). Almost all of her friends are girls.


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i bet she found out u like her and shes using u to make her bf jealous

An alien in a human costume.

The oldest trick in the book.

She probably found out you like her and she's just being friendly, or she found out you like her and she likes you as well but wasn't too sure about it. Keep an eye out for any difficulties (i.e. arguments etc) that she might have with her boyfriend, if they become more frequent since she started acting differently, there may be something there.

To tell the truth, I think she found out herself. I sound like an asshole for saying this and I'm sorry, but I'm pretty much the only guy besides her bf who gives her a lot of attention. Most guys don't. I think she knows somethings up.

Her and her bf.....they seem fine from what I see. They've been going out for a year, so I'm not giving my hopes up. We'll see.

PS- I don't know if its coincidence or not, but I've noticed that she started acting like this right after I said I was single. Hmmm.

It's quite possible she found out herself, I know from experience that girls are quite good at finding out or figuring out if a guy likes them. You don't sound like an asshole at all, I was the same with a girl I liked last year. Although when I say I was the same, I actually gave her more attention than her boyfriend who was (and still is) a complete ass at times. It's very possible, if not certain, that she knows that you like her.

Not to sound too cynical but they may seem fine on the surface but there may be something you don't notice. Try to be more observant when it comes to the little things, so for example look out for a change in body language with her towards her boyfriend; notice how often they hold hands and kiss in public. It's the little things that show the truth. A psychological study actually proved that happiness is the easiest emotion to fake (just a little thought for you).

If she started acting like this after you said you were single then it reinforces the idea that she knows you like her. It's possible that she knew you liked her before but didn't know you were single so didn't really want to stick her neck out, so to speak. I think if she continues acting this way and becoming more and more friendly with you for a month or so, she almost certainly likes you.

(Sorry about the long messages lol)

No no, long messages are a good thing

The 2 friends of hers that I sit with said she likes me, but I think/thought they were joking. Also, another thing I forgot to mention in my orginal post is that she's been copying me recently (using my slang/expressions). She never used to do that either.

And also....one thing I just remembered is that yesterday when she walked into the library, she kinda scanned around like the way I do when I'm looking to see if *shes* there. Maybe I'm reading too much into things but I think that means something.


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I think her copying your slang words, expressions and actions (the library thing) is probably more of a subconscious thing on her part. Could still be a sign that she likes you, although I wouldn't be 100% sure of that, one of my girl friends (not girlfriend) does that sometimes with me, copies words and abbreviations that I use; and I know she doesn't think of me like that because I used to like her but she didn't like me back so I moved on...That and she has a boyfriend (It's the one I said about earlier).

So I'd say her copying things like that isn't really showing anything as it could go either way really. And as far as her friends saying that she likes you, it's possible that they're joking around, but it's also possible they are telling the truth. If they ever say it with her around, see what her reaction is.

They have.......she blushed and smiled nervously.


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Well then, why do you still have your doubts? It's pretty obvious that she likes you, so suggest hanging out sometime.

I do really want to, but she has a boyfriend, remember?

What I was thinking of doing was asking to exchange numbers with her close (single) friend and keep in touch with her that way. Or use the phone book (although that might seem kinda weird).


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Yeah I remember she has a boyfriend but that doesn't stop you two hanging out, just as friends (who possibly like each other, but "he" doesn't need to know that).

Good idea on exchanging numbers, not so good on the phonebook idea though. Another thing you could do is become good friends with one of her friends and then you'd have a clear reason to be around her more often that won't make her boyfriend suspicious.