my too helpful friend

tikitat06 · 05-23-2008, 08:36 PM

So i'm not really sure if this should've gone in the friend section or not but here it goes.

I recently have gotten to know a group of guys from another school since my best friend started dating one of them. Her boyfriend is a really nice guy, but he keeps trying way too hard to set me up with his friends! They all have hit on me before and tell me i'm attractive so it's not as if they're not interested. But as soon as they start hitting on me a little bit, my friend's boyfriend jumps in asking so many questions and tries to push them into something more serious with me. It's such a turn off for the other guys and it makes me really uncomfortable. I just wanna have fun! I've tried telling him to stop, but he thinks he's helping. What should I do?

kerithecowgirl · 05-23-2008, 11:51 PM

just tell him that u appreciate his help but u arent really interested in being set up.tell him that if u do decide u want a bf that youll let him know so maybe he can help.

ihaveadog · 05-24-2008, 11:47 AM

sound assertive when you tell him