• I went out with my best friend of 2 years.
• He promised me if anything had happened we'd go back to being best friends.
• I broke up with him 5 months later because he was being too controlling and we both had really busy schedules.
• He said I had to prove i want to be his friend, which i had no idea how, so i just gave up.
• At random times i would text him to ask what he was up to this weekend just out of curiosity and he said he wants me out of his life for good.
• The next night he texts me saying he wants to talk cause he fooled around with a girl and when he was leaving she told him she had a bf.
• I stopped talking to him cause i couldn't rely on, i didn't know what he wanted of me, and he kept leading me on.
• He now says he realizes that he was playing mind games with me and is sorry and i don't have to prove anything.
• I don't know what to believe. Whether to stay friends with him or forget about him, because i don't know if he'll play with my mind again.

Any help would be much appreciated.

try having a "serious" talk with him and suss your problem out. Its hard if you are in a co-dependant relationship so someone has to take the stand and it seems your boyfriend is probably going through something, was he always like this? He seems a bit possessive you should'nt have to change or do something different to yourself that is out of the norm for you both to remain in a relationship, the point is that you both love each other for the way you both are.

I'd say, through seeing other people here to leave before something bad happens because it seems like it could and the both of you will come out hurt. But try to sort it out, its best to start off a line with "we have to talk" , it lets him know it is serious, no fooling around or mind games. Go somewhere quiet and alone for sure, getting interupted could draw his attention away which you will be needing when you talk to him.

I hope this all goes ok

Edd

Well no matter how good of friends someone is, if you date it will cripple your friendship.

I would say to just stop talking to him because it is only going to cause you more frustration than anything else.

im thinking of hanging out with him next weekend, but im not sure if its the right thing to do. we may think of it as more than friends, he'll lead me on, ill get hurt, and we'll be back here.