Alright I have a huge problem on my hands.

I am now dating this girl. We have been dating for around two to three weeks. The issue is that even though we are dating I don't really feel that much for her. I mean I like her when I'm around her but I just don't full on like her when I'm not. Don't get me wrong shes very pretty and nice and laughs at all of the stuff I say but I'm not feeling anything.

I don't mean to seem shallow when I say this. I know I wasn't forced to date her but I'm a nice guy which as of now seems to be my weakness. My friends parents say how cute we look and before we were dating how cute we would be. They kept going and going and I know how odd this would sound but it felt like if I didn't go through with it then they would look down upon me. Thats the last thing I want since I go to my friends a lot.

Heres the big catch. Which I understand completely if people on here think I'm a dick but I understand. We have already had sex and done other things. I was caught up in the moment and I wasn't thinking straight. I really feel like an asshole for this. She really likes me but I don't feel the same for her. It also doesn't help that shes had some bad shit happen and I am the savior. I don't like my situation one bit.

I need some help guys...

Give it a couple more weeks and see if you feel anything then, it may just take a bit of time to develop. The girl I was seeing earlier this year liked me more than I liked her, I didn't feel that much of an attraction to her to start with but after about a month or so things developed and got stronger from there. You can't rush love, it's actually best that you haven't fallen for her yet; gives you a chance to get to know her better and fall in love with her personality rather than her looks.

Yeah I think possibly give it a week or two as well, and slow it down a bit too maybe. If you still don't really feel that keen on her I think it's better to end it sooner rather than lead her on more.

Alright, thanks for the advice you guys. If things don't flourish after another few weeks then I am in quite a pickle. Shes been through some tough shit. It's just that I've been single for around 2 almost 3 years before I started dating her and with all of the stuff that came with with this relationship, it's just a lot to handle all at once. Totally not used to this.

Oh dear, that'll be a tight situation to get out of. Well as they say, we'll cross that bridge when we come to it.