05-26-2008, 04:50 AM
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A confusing situation.
Okay,
Well im currently dating this guy, I like him, and he likes me. But there's only one thing that's been bothering me sence ive been with him is that he has a daughter. Whom he cant see at all, because they both live in different states, (she lives with her mother/his ex) and it really bothers me, not because he has a daughter but because he never gets to see her, and i feel so bad. He says it doesnt phase him but i dont believe it for a second. He was over my house today and he said that if she ever wanted to take him back he would go back with her. Which surprisingly doesnt really bother me because i want him to be able to be with his daughter. But the problem is his ex treated him like crap and i mean seriously. Im so concerned for him and i dont want him to get hurt again and again like he was before. But at the same time i want him to be with his daughter, id do anything for him to be happy even if that means losing him. And ifi could i would give him money to go back and stay with his daughter but i dont have any.
And im pretty sure the mother wont let him see her, and it bothers me so much because i can feel his pain and i hate it, I just dont know what to do to help him, its so hard and confusing, and i def. dont want to break it off because i really do like him a lot and i do care about him.
Its just i hate seeing him hurt like that.
This is very odd for me because ill admitt it im a usually a jealous girlfriend, But i cant because im trying to put myself in his shoes, because i imagine it must be very hard having a daughter that youve only seen 10 times sence theyve been born.
But all i can think about is if hes really okay on the inside and if hes not how can i help him? because its driving me completely insane. I dont understand how that cant phase him he says hes used to it, but i highly doubt he is.
I know that you guys are probably wondering what the hell im getting myself into, but i litterally have fallen for him when he told me not to get attached and i kind of am. I literaly have to push myself away so that i dont get emotionally attached to him. Its so hard when ive been seeing him a lot lately. I dont know how to control my emotions.
Does anyone have any suggestions on how i can help him?
or
How I can stop my emotions for him from going to far?
Thanks for your time.
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