Ok, so heres the situation. About two weeks ago I finally got the courage to ask a girl out. So I did, and well the first time I asked her, she was going home and well I first asked what she was doing that weekend and she told me exactly what she was doing for everyday, and she already had plans. So I said that I was just going to ask her if she wanted to see a movie, and she said basically in a pleasantly surprised tone something like "oh ye, really". And then the conversation had to end cause i had to get into class or be late, so i said i gtg, i'll talk to you later, bye.

So, I decided to ask her the next week. When I asked her, I wasn't as nervous anymore and she said that she couldn't, because she was going to her cottage (something she actually does most weekends), and this just happened to be a long weekend too. So I asked about the weekend after, and she said that she's going to her cottage that weekend as well (long weekend again). So than I said, well you're a busy person how bout you tell me when you're free and we can go. And she said ok, and then she went home and i went back to class.

So I figured she might ask me in two weeks then, or at least say something. Just to mention, after both of my attempts, nothing at all has changed between us, nothing. If anything we're talking a bit more now. Something I should mention is that last weekend, well she was supposed to go to her cottage but ended up not going because of bad weather there. So we talked on msn on saturday morning, and i implied that we were both free, but she didn't say anything and nothing happened that weekend.

So the two weeks ended this past friday. The few days before she kinda acted like she liked me, and we talked a lot, and were kinda closer. Now the thing is, I had to go to the United States for the weekend, leaving mid friday. But, I didn't tell her, cause well I wanted to see if she really would ask me, or tell me she was free. So, thursday went by, and she acted really really friendly. And on friday, well we saw each other maybe 3 times, and had an extremely brief conversation, and then I said I had to leave. And I said this to her, when she was with her group of friends, so I dunno if she got the point that I was leaving for the United States. Her best friend did know though.

So nothing happened friday, and I came back today and we talked on msn for a bit. She asked me how my weekend was, and what I was up to. So I dunno if she actually didn't know that I went to the U.S or that she was pretending not to know. So we talked and I asked her what she did and it turns out that she went to a movie friday night with her friends, and then to a party last night. So she was free the whole weekend. Now I dunno, i'm confused cause well did she rejet me or no?

I dunno if maybe she was planning to ask me out afterschool or something, or maybe shes never going to ask me out. So I'm not mad or anything right now, and I'm not saying that she didn't, cause she might've wanted to but i wasn't there. On the other had maybe she wasn't going to at all. So what are your thoughts and opinions on this.

Thnx,
sorry for the long story.

I think you need to make it more clear that you're trying to ask her out on a date, you could just say "Hey, would you go out with me?". Maybe she thinks your asking her as a friend.
She does sound busy, but it also seems like she trying to make excuses. So either she doesn't like you and it trying to avoid it, or she doesn't know what you mean and isn't taking it seriously. Make sure she knows exactly what you mean...

its extremely possible she really likes you as a friend and possibly WOULD want to see a movie with you, but as soon as she knows you guys are strictly just friends. but who knows... maybe one day it will be more than that...? wish you the best of luck!

I'm sorry to say it man but it doesn't seem like shes interested. She will not ask you out. You have to ask her and you have to come back to her and ask her when she is free. If she keeps making excuses then it may mean bad.

ok, honest comment

make yourself clear to her..