Well today at lunch, the girl I like was by herself at a table in the library doing work, so I needed to do some too so i went and sat beside her. We know each other really well, like we're good friends and talk on msn a lot. And well, we talked a little and then all her friends came, so basically I was the only guy, with her and her four friends around a table. So they started talking.

Now the thing is I had asked this girl out before and she said she would tell me when she was free so we could go out and see a movie. Well they started discussing the weekend, where they went to a party. And basically she was completely different then when we talk on msn or when we're alone. And at that point I just realized that, i don't know you at all, and i have no idea who you are. Even though we talk on msn every single day and discuss everything. And she mentioned how she went to a party that weekend, and they discussed that and then she mentioned her ex boyfriend was there. And I dunno if its jealousy or something but suddenly I just kinda felt pissed and left and didn't say a word to her, and for the rest of the day.

I don't really get what why i'm so pissed though. I'm thinking it might be because well I had a doubt that she was out of my league a few months ago, then i got over that and up to very recently there was a big chance that we could go somewhere, past friendship. And now, today was a real eye opener on how extremely different we are. Like she's canadian and beautiful, party girl, very popular. I'm russian, wasn't born here, have an acne problem a bit, only have been to like 2 hardcore parties in my life and only popular in my circles. While she knows people i've never heard of. Thats just my rant. Thnx.

well before anything...talking through msn is completely different than talking in person. someone can say a lot through msn but wether or not they can say it in person is the question. If you say she's acting different when her friends are around it might be because she doesn't want to show that she likes you infront of them...or maybe she's scared of what they're gonna think or say. You really shouldn't feel bad or anything...because is she's gonna be ashamed of showing her feeling towards you infront of people then mayb she's not worth it. But hey..don't lose hope..and just try to talk to her alone about how you feel (not through msn)..you never know wat she might be feeling or thinking until you really take time to talk to her about it in person. And its better to find out the truth than to be doubting yourself and feeling bad about the whole situation. SO GOODLUCK!!

It's funny, me and my boyfriend at first were only able to talk to each other through AIM. It took about a month before we could talk to each other face to face. By the sounds of it, this girl is a little undecided abou twhether she wants to go out with you or not, otherwise I think she would have said yes right away. Not trying to give you any doubts or anything right away, but it is something you should keep in mind.

I agree with the whole talking to her in person thing but, I think you should ask her over MSN first if she has some time to spare at school or whatever to talk to you alone. By the sounds of your post it seems she's always with people so it might be best to ask her ahead of time.