ME! help bf sis :S

lambshank · 05-27-2008, 11:52 PM

Ok its a long story but I will give you the short story!

my boyfriends sis had been saying that she saw me kissing another guy???? but were she got that from i will never know??? my boyfriend believes me (Thankfully

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well all i wanna ask is what do i do about his sis i have tryed to to kind and sweet to her im not a bitchy person i dont like when people hate me but i wanna kill her LOL!!!

but yep anyone have anything to say about how i can make her happy wid me all i want is her to like me thats all ( is that to much to ask??)

thanks for reading

The Wolf · 05-28-2008, 03:35 AM

Is she a younger sister? If so, how young? Let's just say she is younger (I'm not sure whether she's older or younger). Maybe it's not that she doesn't like you specifically, but anyone he dates. She might feel like she is losing him to you, if they were close in the first place. As "lame" as it might sound, maybe, you could invite her to the movies or some 'date' you two have. Might show her that you aren't just trying to take away her brother. Mind you, this could be a long shot guess.

If she is older she might just be looking out for him. Hard to tell. I would talk to her.

lambshank · 05-28-2008, 03:16 PM

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Originally Posted by The Wolf

Is she a younger sister? If so, how young? Let's just say she is younger (I'm not sure whether she's older or younger). Maybe it's not that she doesn't like you specifically, but anyone he dates. She might feel like she is losing him to you, if they were close in the first place. As "lame" as it might sound, maybe, you could invite her to the movies or some 'date' you two have. Might show her that you aren't just trying to take away her brother. Mind you, this could be a long shot guess.

If she is older she might just be looking out for him. Hard to tell. I would talk to her.

I have talked to her so many times and every single time she keep saying I don't not like you im sorry lets 4get about it and i will be better!!

and well I did believe her untill now!! and yes she is younger then me buy three years!!!

i will talk to her again!!!!

THANKS FOR YA HELP

stratosfear · 05-28-2008, 05:02 PM

Wow a fellow Sheffielder.

Hmm, I think I agree with The Wolf, try and show her that you're a good person. But it sounds like you've tried pretty hard with her already, so if she pushes it in your face again, I might not bother if I were you. :S

lambshank · 05-28-2008, 06:18 PM

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Originally Posted by stratosfear

Wow a fellow Sheffielder.

Hmm, I think I agree with The Wolf, try and show her that you're a good person. But it sounds like you've tried pretty hard with her already, so if she pushes it in your face again, I might not bother if I were you. :S

I'm going to talk to her but it's hard when all she sayz iz i went do it again!

but ye I think i will just have to talk 2 her!!

THANKS FOR THE HELP!!!!

Striker · 05-28-2008, 10:13 PM

Maby you could try spend time with this younger/older bf sister and hope for the best.

Or you could tell her to stop being a bitch and just learn to love.

lambshank · 05-28-2008, 10:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Striker

Maby you could try spend time with this younger/older bf sister and hope for the best.

Or you could tell her to stop being a bitch and just learn to love.

because she is younger I don't really have anything that were can do 2gever
but I have tryed i spend time with her when i can and what i don't get is that she has told me thing's that she will in big trouble if I tell her dad so i thought she trusted and liked me

but I yep I think I need to "tell her to stop being a bitch and just learn to love"

I think I need to stop being miss nice girl LOL :S

THANK'S FOR THE HELP!!!!!!

The Wolf · 05-29-2008, 03:31 AM

Hmm, I'm unsure of what she told you. Could it be possible that it was all lies? She might be testing you. From the sounds of things she doesn't seem like she would let you have something to use against her (black mail). You never know though, she might just be opening up to you, since you are female. You mentioned a brother (your boyfriend) and a father, but no where have you mentioned a sister or a father. Is she the only female in that household? She might be looking to you for women support.

I'm just throwing out random possibilities, they all could be a long shot from the truth.

twizzy · 05-29-2008, 10:29 AM

kill her or fuck her with a dildo.....

lambshank · 05-29-2008, 04:05 PM

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Originally Posted by The Wolf

Hmm, I'm unsure of what she told you. Could it be possible that it was all lies? She might be testing you. From the sounds of things she doesn't seem like she would let you have something to use against her (black mail). You never know though, she might just be opening up to you, since you are female. You mentioned a brother (your boyfriend) and a father, but no where have you mentioned a sister or a father. Is she the only female in that household? She might be looking to you for women support.

I'm just throwing out random possibilities, they all could be a long shot from the truth.

well she tells me things that i know are true e.g she smokes I know thats true I have seen her! no she has her mum there! but wat i dont get is if she trying to open up to me then when did she say that to her dad and my bf???? but ye 2moz i going to my boyfriends house to have a word with his dad to tell him that i haven't and well i guess i will have to talk to her about it!

only problem is how do you start???? i can't just walk in a say YOU FUCKING BITCH like i wanna LOL

THANKS FOR THE HELP

Striker · 05-29-2008, 08:06 PM

You could use these things to your advantage if it gets to much > blackmail her

(only kiding) maby its just that she loves her brother and she belives your not good enough for him so you could get him to talk to her?

lambshank · 05-29-2008, 09:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Striker

You could use these things to your advantage if it gets to much > blackmail her

(only kiding) maby its just that she loves her brother and she belives your not good enough for him so you could get him to talk to her?

ummmm blackmail looks really good right now

lol (I would never us blackmail)

I now but its not up to her to now how is good 4 her bro :S lol

wat she going to do when i move in with him in 3mths???

THANKS FOR READING

Striker · 05-29-2008, 09:50 PM

shes gonna make your life hell (lol)

try one last talk sit her down just two of you (maby your bf) and get both of yall feelings out in the open and try to clear the air one last time.

BTW how old are you, your bf, and his sis

lambshank · 05-29-2008, 10:47 PM

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Originally Posted by Striker

shes gonna make your life hell (lol)

try one last talk sit her down just two of you (maby your bf) and get both of yall feelings out in the open and try to clear the air one last time.

BTW how old are you, your bf, and his sis

no joke she will make my life hell LOL

IM going to 2moz i going to his house

im 15 going on 16 (thats when im moving it ) my boyfriend is 18 and his sis is 13