i feel like im falling

petriieplayspool · 05-29-2008, 02:12 AM

okay i kind of need help. i reeeaaally am falling for this guy i met on friday night. we hung out all that night, the whole day saturday and that night too, and all night sunday. he stayed at my place sunday night because he needed a place to stay. nothing happened though. the thing is, is that he has a girlfriend. and im sort of friends with her. like not good good friends or anything, but i've known her for awhile and we get along great. he was stressed about her all weekend because she had been avoiding him and everything and then on sunday night, she broke up with him and he was devistated. i tried to comfort him and cheer him up a little bit. then monday, he told me that they were still going out. when he said that, i just felt shattered.

anyways, yesterday my friend caitlin told me that she talked to him on saturday and he said that he sort of liked me, but he was confused about certain things. i really want to be with him. i havent felt the want to date for such a long time, and when im with him, i feel such a deep connection with him. The way he talks to me just makes me smile. when im with him, i never want to leave his side. he texted me earlier today telling me that he loved being with me and that he didnt even care about getting a ticket just BECAUSE he was with me when it happened (i got pulled over on saturday night when i was with him and we got curfew tickets).

Well, i dont know whats going on with him and his girlfriend. im afraid to ask because i think im going to end up getting hurt in the end, just like i have been hurt in my past. Im trying to make myself seem more like a friend to him because he has a girlfriend, but its so hard. And i dont want to keep hanging out with him if hes going to stay with his girlfriend. Then, its absolutely pointless for me. i really want to tell him how i feel, but i think i should wait until he breaks up with her, or he tells me that he likes me. i dont want to get my hopes up for nothing though, if he doesnt. any advice?

Tabzi · 05-29-2008, 07:53 AM

The main way to ask him if its going ok is:

"So, Hows life for you 2 love bugs?" - Yup, sounds stupid but very casual..

Iif he says not working out good, wait like another month or so , until they split up, you can comfort him,and work your way up.

dfnty23 · 05-29-2008, 10:04 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Tabzi

The main way to ask him if its going ok is:

"So, Hows life for you 2 love bugs?" - Yup, sounds stupid but very casual..

Iif he says not working out good, wait like another month or so , until they split up, you can comfort him,and work your way up.

Nice thread! I really like your provided information. It's really helpful for me.
Thanks a lot!

micromark · 05-29-2008, 10:42 PM

dont loose your mate !

Doughnut · 05-29-2008, 10:46 PM

You need to ask yourself an important question.

Is he worth losing a friend who you "get on great" with?

xx

petriieplayspool · 05-29-2008, 11:08 PM

thanks everyone who offered some advice.
i will probably see whats going on with him and her this weekend =]

and i dont know if its worth it, because me and her use to be friends, but now we're more of acquaintances, so i guess i dont really care as much even though maybe i should?
ahh im so impatient about this whole thing