as some of you know from a previous thread, i had finally got myself a girlfriend after almost 19 years of waiting. but that realationship lasted 8 days, and i thought that everything was going good, but she told me that i was too "clingy", but i was still learning what exactly what to do. so we broke it off friendly, but reacently there was a car crash and three of her friends died tragically, but she was having that i think its called surviver guilt because she had the choice to go with them but didnt. but the thing that is really annoying about it is that she keeps telling me that she wants to be with me, but she doesnt want to ruin my life because someone told her that she ruined the vacation that i went on, when she didnt, but right now i dont want to her from her because she is the one who is clingy and she is affecting my friendship with my friends

i am going to move on and there is already another girl who i think has something for me

It doesn't sound like she's in any place to be in a romantic relationship. Do you care about her?

If you do just be her friend she's obviously going through a very hard time and feels you are someone she can rely on for comfort.