can somebody explain to me why some girls take everything that some guys who are not there boyfriend or good guy friends way to serious? and why do they lie to there boyfriend about something that never happens?

okay here is the story, my best friends girl and i are pretty close and we do all the things that friends do: talk, txt, friend flirting, and hang out at each others houses, with or without her boyfriend. but the thing that just really hurt me the most is that today i was just asking her if she wanted to see a movie and she told me that she wasn't sure and i told her it was cool and that was it.

about an hour ago, my best friend called and told me about hanging out next week with another friend and he told me that his girl called and told him to tell me to stop calling her when she is working (which i never do, i txt her because i dont need a response right away) and that i call during bad times with her parents fighting. the thing is that she is the one who calls me more often because she cant talk with her boyfriend because of his parents (and i have the phone records to prove it).

so right now i cant believe this person who is my friend, wouldnt come and talk to me about this.
please help

It's not right to assume the situation, as most of the problem is blown out of proportion in your own mind. If this bothers you, then speak to her about it, and ask why. She may or may not have a reason, perhaps didn't even think about it.

It's not the easiest concept to 'talk about it' with everyone.

Id have to agree with storyteller on this one but maybe and this is just a maybe the girl is confused about who she likes and she thinks that she might be doing a bit too much with you, but hey thats just a thought.

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Attention whores. End of story. These women feed off drama and attention, to the point where it is sick.


If she did this to you, be weary. She should have talked to you herself, perhaps you should confront her, but I would keep my distance too be honest, if she lied about this who knows what else she may lie about.

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Don't confront her unless you have your guy mate and proof

because if you confront her alone she could become all blackmaily/liey

and if you do confront her do it wif your mate there and have evidence

warning he may get a bit pissed off but dw after a couple of weeks you'll have forgotten it all.

good luck xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxluv

i talked with her after the whole thing, and she told me that she never said any of that. we both think my best friend basically lied to me about it because of the time that her and i spend, the fact that he is jealous of me really dissappoints me because she is going to a different college in the fall and taking classes with another one of our friends and if he cant trust me, there is no way he will trust him with her

Then you two need to confront him.

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god i am such a ******* idiot
finally got to talk with him and he still told me that she did that so i finally just asked her and she said that she thought that i liked her and was trying to steal her away from him!!! HELLO, i am not going to piss off my best friend by stealing his girl, and now i feel like a jack ass because i treated him like shit when i talked to him.
but that still doesn't make up for her, if she had a problem with the way that i am why didn't she come and talk with me. and i already told her once that i didn't like her like that but i guess she is dam thick headed that she didn't get it the first time
god i am so pissed at her because of this

well at least your mate knows that you were in the right now
just show your mate how much he means to you (as a friend)
and take him to the football or sumthin and say that youre sorree
that you doubted him?

xxxluck

Oh dear... that is the problem with being friends with other friends girlfriends/boyfriends.
1. the word friend pops up to much
2. eventually someone gets mad

sometimes it works out.. but usually not.

I guess you have reason to be mad at his girlfriend, she should have talked to you about it if you were such good friends. All you can do now if make it up to your mate and keep that friendship together.

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