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Old 06-21-2008, 01:34 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Friends introducing you to crush

So I'm confused about how I should introduce myself to the girl I really like. I started noticing her at the end of the school year so there wasn't much of a chance to make a move. But now it's summer and somehow all of the people I talk to know I like her, and by the time the school year starts up again I know someone will end up telling her.

Do girls think this is cute or will she think I'm really wimpy for not telling her first? I know that's how my first relationship started ~4 years ago and that turned out to be extremely boring. Should I make a move before someone tells her next school year or wait for my friends to?
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Depends on whether she likes you or not, as in, her reaction. Make the move when you feel comfortable making it, never make it because you feel the need to. Predominantly, it wont matter, if there is something there, there is something there.

My advice: Don't come across as if you are already 'into' her per se, get the chance to know her and try getting her number to text her..she has texting, right? And if 'everyone knows', most likely she knows.
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Old 06-21-2008, 08:45 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Re: Friends introducing you to crush

Ah...aproaching women. I could teach classes xD I'll give you hand buddy.

I think firstly that your jumping the gun - you can't really "make a move", being that you haven't even spoken. What you need to do, is make sure she knows you and make some sort of rapport.

The easiest way to do this if your not comfortable with just a confident walk-up-to-her-and-start-chatting approach, try building comfort through passing jokes. As an example;

Last weekend I saw a pretty hot girl who I wanted to talk to. About 5 minutes later I saw her stood by herself, her friends had walked off. I could have just gone over and spoken then...but I chose instead to walk past her (on my way towards another group of friends) and just look at her and say, "Whats the matter? Not got any friends?". Delivery is key. I smiled and laughed, but kept walking. She laughed back and I continued talking with other friends.

10 minutes later I return, and shes still stood by herself. So I walk over, laughing still,
"Bloody hell, still not found any friends? I'll stand with you - otherwise I'll look bad for ignoring you". She laughed and we started talking straight off (got on REALLY well )
I was insantly accepted 'cos I already had a running joke with her, even though I hadn't even met her properly.

Read a situation, somewhere where you could just make a little joke at her expense and then carry on with your normal activities. Strangely, small doses like that keep you in her memory - making you remembered as that "funny guy who insulted me for having no friends :P' or something similar. It also makes her wonder who you are...and hey, chances are, she'll start the next conversation to know more.

Be friendly, funny. Get her to notice you. Then Introduce.
Then make a move.

Girls finding out a guy "really likes them", yet she has never really spoken to him, prety much kills the chance. 'cos her reply will be "Who?". Make her know exactly who you are

Good Luck.

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Old 06-21-2008, 09:57 PM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Friends introducing you to crush

lol ^ at this persons vainness x

add her on myspace/facebook if you both have it
then if she adds you be like thanks
and just continue chattin

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Re: Friends introducing you to crush

Vainness? pfffft.
Its actually just confidence that I know what I'm talking about.

Don't see that in your post :P haha

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