We've only recently started talking. They've been apart for about a year, but he still likes her. I'm pretty sure she's over him, not to mention she's with another guy and broke up with her ex to be with this guy. We used to only hang out when my friend was there. Him and her live a couple hours away, so they don't see eachother often.

Anyways one time we were hanging out and after she left he asked me for my email and I let him add me. Anyways after that I left and when I got home we started talking, alot actually. We talked for atleast 2 hours about pretty much everything. The next time we talked it was the same, we talked about serious things, like our belief's and what not everytime I had to go, he didn't want me to, and would always leave after I did and said that he only comes on to talk to me and my friend. This went on for a while. Recently he told me that he also liked someone else but wouldn't say who so I dropped the subject.

Last night I let it go a little farther, and am kinda dissapointed in myself. We watched a couple of vid's and exchanged a bunch of photos.

I have no idea what to do. Do you think it's wrong? I know I would be a little upset if she did it, but it would be different if I was over the guy.

talk to your girl mate
ask her if what her opinion is maybe x
you could also find out from her if he likes you x
coz even though he said he liked another girl
he wouldnt tell you her name
so he could be talkin about you x
luv summer xxx

Talk to your friend.

It has been over a year, you should be all good.

He's an ex.

Therefore there isn't a problem.

xx

There is a firm difference that I find between to "like" and to "love."

I will admit that I love my friends just as I do my girlfriend, and I do mean love. The difference is that I love my girlfriend in a intimate way.

I will not sway your opinion, but keep it mind - Is it risk losing the love of your friend for the possible love of another?

It's a hard decision. I would deffinetly rather be in love with someone intimatly than to love someone as a friend. Right now my friends are my top prioritie, but in the end.. i deffinetly do wanna settle down with someone. But I knows theres a better chance of keeping my friend than for something to happen between me and this guy. But would you be mad if one of your best friend's went out with your ex.. even though you have a girlfriend atm.

hmm....

Mates before Dates. the most important rule in life.
A guy might be there for you today. But your friends will always be there for you tomorrow.

You need to talk to your friend. Ask her if she is over him and if she would be comfortable with someone else going out with him.

In my opinion. If a friend went out with my ex now I would be a little hurt. BUT it's only been about 4 months since we broke up. I'm sure by after a year I will be totally over him.

xx good luck