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I posted this on another thread a few days ago but got no response at all, so here it is again
I met this girl (We'll call her K) in a park with a bunch of friends a few months ago after a local gig, I then got her Bebo etc, and after 2 messages between us each way (Private ones), I said "We need to meet up again, for 1 thing I really need to tell you something".
After I said this, (Bare in mind we have only met once), she has suggested we meet up a couple of times, and since I have only met her once, what do you think, apart from for me to ask her out, she might think I want to ask her?
Trying to assume what a stranger wants is like trying to guess the powerball. For all we could know, she might not be expecting it since you two have only met once. How often do the two of you communicate?
thats a very broad question..... they could be thinking of anything.... just ask the person? that way if she thinks its something that it isn't then you can tell her the truth?
Try to find out what she wants you to ask her without actually asking her what she wants you to ask her, i.e. get to know her better first, keep her in suspense, and if she's still game after you're better acquainted, you can meet up and you'll know exactly what it is that she wants to hear you ask her.
ps: All this could've been avoided if you had just been open and said you wanted to meet up because you like her.
I tell you what, here is exactly what I said:
"Hello Ello Katie.
Hows you? Done anything nice since Garth?
We really need to meet up again, Garth was like, the best night ever, and for 1 thing I really need to tell you something "
She then said back:
"I'm great thanks.
We really should, that was a funny night.
Awwwww, what do you need to tell me?"
Then I said:
"I need to tell you properly really, I tell you what, we are all meeting on Thursday and everyone has to leave at like, 5pm, wanna come along?"
We didn't end up meeting up because I went and had an important charity Golf day instead.
What do you think she might think I want to tell her after saying that?
i think she could already know what your planning on telling her,
let her asume for a few more days, if she contacts you acting all sweet and affectionate then meet up and tell her to her face ! (seriously the web is a wonder but not a miracle)
Why would it matter what she thinks your going to tell her, when your going to tell her whatever you really have to tell her. --->Sorry, a little confusing, it's the only way to put it.
I know I'm gonna tell her anyway, but I just wanted to know what you thought she might think I wanted to say.
I wouldn't ever dream of asking someone out over the web, or on the phone, or anything but face to face. It just shows you don't have the balls to ask her face to face, and that ain't good.
Thanks guys!!! Please, if you've got any other suggestions or something, it would be much apreciated.
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