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Old 06-26-2008, 09:36 PM   #1 (permalink)
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HOw to get rid of the inner demon

OK I like a girl from the other class and the point is that I have a subconcious "no" when I try to approach her and say what I feel and what I suggest(I will make little cocky and funny dialoge before the strike). please someone help me and if any girls read this to tell me how they will react I need an advice from the other side of the sex? And what will be the worst thing to happen... (remember she doesn't have boyfriend)
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Re: HOw to get rid of the inner demon

take the big words out and i might be able to help you then x
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Re: HOw to get rid of the inner demon

It's unclear as to what you want to convey. From what I gathered, you're scared to ask a girl out, don't know what to say, and fear rejection. Correct me if I'm wrong. I was actually talking about it with a friend the other day, we agreed that it's best to man (or woman) up, and confess feelings.

Ask her on a date, while you're talking to her casually. After you've talked for a few minutes, just do it. Like a gunshot, quickly, and clearly. Fear of rejection is the biggest factor in these situation, and the fear is worse than the actual rejection. So what if she says no? Try again in a few months, or just move on. Just ask, and if she says yes, you'll feel better than before!
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Re: HOw to get rid of the inner demon

Unfortunately I cant really offer you any feminine advice...
BUT! What i can offer you is some testosterone injected MEGA TIPS on how to get girls... hehehe

I take it from the topic title your trying to get rid of that subconscious "no"?
Well, the problem is it isn't your subconscious, its your conscious fear of being rejected. Your worried that your going to be rejected, so you think you will be, which causes you to worry even more. So the answer is - Think positively.

Unfortunately that answer is kind of vague. Basically try to hype yourself up before you approach her, so you can relax and be yourself when you talk to her. Girls always tell guys to be themselves. Mainly because guys get so caught up trying to act like someone else that they wind up coming of as nervous and insecure, and seem really really tense as they scan their minds trying to think what would some other guy do. If your happy with yourself, and you get caught up trying to be someone else, youll find it 10000x easier to talk to girls.

You got the idea with making cocky/funny statements. They project self confidence and fun playfulness, so definitly go ahead and throw out all of the lines you got (just dont come off as too cocky or too funny.. then itll look like your trying waayyy to hard.)

Most of all, consider what might be the worst thing that could happen. What if she tells you no? Youll get on with your life and meet new people, and atleast then youve tried. Trying and failing is better then never trying at all (when it comes to dating). It will by no means be the end of the world; if anything it will make you even stronger. Everyone gets rejected, as no guy can be perfect to every woman in the world. Ive been rejected countless times now, to the point where it doesnt even phase me. And every time I get rejected, I find I learn something new. Hell I even have made a game outta it with my friends in which we go around trying to get rejected just for the fun of it*. But overall, my success' are whats important, not my failures.

In short - Relax and be yourself. Stop worrying about what would happen if she rejects you, and just go ahead and try. Go ahead and try to throw out some cocky funny lines if you have them, but just remember, girls def. dont dig nervous guys.

*Yea, if your fear of rejection is that bad go ahead and play the game. Walk up to girls and do whatever it takes to get rejected as fast as possible. Youll start thinking of very funny ways to turn girls off and your bound to get a few laughs along the way, and hell you might even learn a thing or two.
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