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Old 06-27-2008, 11:47 AM   #1 (permalink)
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So, there's this girl, and we've flirted a lot in the past, and considered a relationship, it just never happened. She decided to go out with this other guy, even after telling me she felt nothing for him. I was going to ask her out after she broke up with him, but I felt it was too soon. I waited, and something happened.

My friend asked her out. She gave him a stern "No," and told him she was tired of guys right now, and 5 other guys asked her out. I figured it was pretty much impossible to ask her out in the situation.

It gets worse...it's possible that I'm moving, and if I don't ask her soon, it would be hard to establish a relationship long-distance, let alone uphold one.

What I'm asking is, should I ask her out? When? Sooner, or later?
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Old 06-27-2008, 11:59 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Re: Bad Situation...

hmmm as soon as possible would probobly be the best what have you got to lose if she says no its pretty easy to get over it when you live further away.
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Old 06-27-2008, 12:01 PM   #3 (permalink)
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hmmm as soon as possible would probobly be the best what have you got to lose if she says no its pretty easy to get over it when you live further away.
Alright then. Suppose that's best, and I've never considered the latter. I'm not really afraid of rejection, more afraid of it being too soon, and having missed a chance. Thanks.
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Re: Bad Situation...

No problem thats why we're here to offer our opinion.
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idk...that's a toughy for me. she's jumping around through a lot of guys no?
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So, there's this girl, and we've flirted a lot in the past, and considered a relationship, it just never happened. She decided to go out with this other guy, even after telling me she felt nothing for him. I was going to ask her out after she broke up with him, but I felt it was too soon. I waited, and something happened.

My friend asked her out. She gave him a stern "No," and told him she was tired of guys right now, and 5 other guys asked her out. I figured it was pretty much impossible to ask her out in the situation.

It gets worse...it's possible that I'm moving, and if I don't ask her soon, it would be hard to establish a relationship long-distance, let alone uphold one.

What I'm asking is, should I ask her out? When? Sooner, or later?
Well it sounds like she keeps turning down guys because maybe just possibly she is waiting for the right one to come around. I wouldn't see any harm at giving it a go, except for the fact that you are moving. Dude, why even bother if you are going far away? That would cause a lot of strain and problems in the relationship.
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^^ You got a point.
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Duh I do. :]
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I agree with Sami. If your moving, wouldn't that just hurt the both of you more?
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