Met this guy about a month ago and we've been seeing eachother ever since. The only reason we never got together sooner was because i wanted to take things slow and also, i wanted to know if this guy really liked me so i stopped the sex for a while. We are now together and have been for about 2 weeks. We spent all this week together because he moves around alot because he's in the RAF he came home earlier and now is away for 2 weeks. I know he really likes me and we get on great but because i have abit of commitment phobia, i can't seem to bring myself to meet his friends. He says it's important to him, and just really wants me to meet them. So why can't i? I've already met his dad even though neither of us was planning on doing so. Not sure why but i think it's generally going to fast. He keeps asking how do you actually take things slow and tbh i really don't have a clue, he's the first guy i haven't run away from and i'm now scared that if it keeps going fast or feels to fast i'm just going to get scared and run. So really all i'm asking is how do you actually take things slow in a relationship???