Hey,
My name's Stu, I'm new to this forum, but need advice.
Basically, I am an approaching 17 year old guy (my 17th birthday is in like four weeks), and as of yet I haven't had a proper girlfriend. In fact, the last time I had a girlfriend was when I was 14, and it lasted for like four weeks. I feel like I still love the girlfriend I had, but she is a massive flirt, and recently I made the decision to get over her.
But she isn't the problem. It's me. Basically, I feel like I need to have a girlfriend. I just want someone to love, hug me, share kisses, you know, all the lovey dovey stuff. But right now, it feels like there's no one for me.
I don't like anyone in my school that way, and school right now is the only place I have time to socialise because I get really caught up with the work load at school. I have visions of the 'dream girl' for me, brunette, petite, slim and gorgeous, and I'd love to find someone like that, but I feel like I'm too scared to go into the real world and do it.
What makes it worse also is that I don't look 17- I'd say I look more 14, which really knocks me back. The only pleasure I have right now is masturbating, and I do that too often. Just dreaming about the 'right girl' on top of me pleasures me, but I don't want to be like this all the time- I want the girl to actually be there, not in a fantasy.
I'm starting to work out in order to make myself look bigger and perhaps gain more attention, but I'm just really nervous that I haven't even had a proper girlfriend in my whole life.
So, here's my question. How do I find the right girl for me? Can anyone suggest any sites/places where I could perhaps socialise and get to know someone. And is it normal for a 17 year old guy to have not had a proper girlfriend before? What should I do?
I hope you can help me out, and thanks for reading
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