So today my buddy and I went to this grocery store and on the inside there is a starbucks. We decided to go to the starbucks. There was a very cute girl working the cash register and we started talking to her. We tried flirting with her a bit by giving her a tip but she couldn't accept it because the grocery store doesn't allow it. We got a little bit more flirty and after getting our drinks, we walked away. Later on I got to thinking how cute she was and I would like to go back to try flirting with her some more and possibly ask her out.

I just don't know what kind of technique I should use for seducing her and I was wondering if you guys had some ideas. She's very flirty too, and looks like she is single. How do I ask her for her number without coming on too strong?

welll just go for it! don't footstep around and worry about it! go in there ask for a drink sit down for a bit, give her the eye, and when she comes over to clear tables or something ask her a question or whatever, or tell her you remember her from the other day, just bring something up and you should be able to do the rest

you want her number...so just ask for it.

its not like a real starbucks restaurant though, just a stand. and idk, dont girls want to get to know guys a little bit before giving out their numbers?

yes..which is why you make conversation with her first.

like what..?

seriously, use your imagination, you can't lack that many social skills...

"heyy, I came in the other day, not that you'd remember ...thought I'd drop by again, how you doing?"

" blah blah blah...I'm fine"


then say something like "do you like food" orr do you like..something that you know she'll say yes too, then say

"if you give me your number, maybe I can take you out to dinner one time"

just keep it casual... the more you think about it the more insecure you'll get about going through with it. Just do it.

i just feel the whole thing as being kinda cheesy which frustrates me because of lack of confidence on my part.

if you can sense you both have an attraction towards each other.
just fucking ask. she wants to give it as badly as you wanna ask.
if she seems a little more in her own world. start off with jokes etc.
hope i helped!

Remember, when you walk into a store to chat or flirt with a cute cashier, you have absolutely nothing to lose.

The worst that can happen is if the security cameras notice you come in everyday at the same time just to flirt and the girl gets freaked out and calls 9-1-1 and finds you really creepy and you get arrested for stalking or harassment, etc.

But ignore all that!

Ask her out. Ask for her #.

Neal C.

eassy
write a note wif ur name and cell on
then as you give her the money in your hand have the note there as well
and she can phone you
if she does - youll no she like you
if she dont - youll no she doesnt wanna go out wif you

xxxxxxluck

You forgot the possibility that she could be shy.

Neal C.

alright i think i am going to go back there on friday and try it

Yeah! I am with you and wishing you for great time!
All the best!

she was working, but wasn't taking orders and was in the back, so it would have been weird trying to get her attention, I don't think she saw me either. i'm going back sometime, does anybody have any more tips?