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So a couple of things.
1. When my girlfriend drinks she gets really bitchy and critical about me. (pointing out my flaws. etc)
2. when my girlfriend gets drunk she wants to have sex with other guys.
I told her that if she ever cheated on me with another guy, I'd leave.
So one night, she was drunk and kissed another guy.
She claimed at the time (Even the day after when she was sober) that he just gave her 2 quick kisses on her lips. Well that was several weeks ago and I jsut found out yesterday that they in fact made out.
What do I do? I don't want to make a big deal about it. I want to stay with her, but I"m done taking shit from people.
oh and the first part....when I'm drunk I get really defensive. So that's a terrible match up. haha but please help.
She's already cheated on you and you said when she gets drunk she wants to have sex with other guys, and eventually, she will. It's best that you leave her.
I think if you want to carry on with this you should talk to her and tell her you're not happy with the way she's treating you, ask her to cut way back on her drinking and stop even flirting with other guys.
Or just tell her you've had enough. You say you don't want crap from people yet you're willing to put up with a girlfriend who flirts and kisses other guys as well as critisising you? Show her that you're not putting up with it I think.
Once a cheat always a cheat and you know what they say a drunken mind speaks a sober heart.
Unless she stops drinking completely I'd leave her, you can't trust her.
xxx
Hi You have done a good question, it’s really interesting. If you get any good reply, so please let me know. So I’ll also get some good idea. Thanks for your future help.
Fuck her. As in, get rid of her. She's clearly not worth your time. At the very least, tell her exactly how you feel; lay it all out on the table for her and leave the ball in her court. Depending on her response/reaction, make your decision. But personally I wouldn't waste my time with someone like that, and if she does end up sleeping with another guy, you're going to be kicking yourself and wishing you had ended it. Also, I believe what she has done already constitutes cheating, but that's just me. Not to mention she also lied to you. You need to ask yourself some serious questions about the quality of relationship you truly want.
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