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In september 2007, I entered High school , (I live in quebec, so high school starts at grade 7 to 12 then you have an extra 2 years of "cegept") and a few days after I met an amazing girl, when I saw her I knew we were gonna be great friends (and of course,,I liked her).. We were amazing friends.. Then couple weeks before christmas.. She started crushing on me.. I was scared and simply said "I want us to stay friends.. is that alright?" And she replied by a "Yes ofcourse, I think its better liked that" But we stayed great friends from January to febuary 14th was smooth, then the day of valentines day, she sent me a lover card.. We didnt really talk to each other about it, we kept it between us. Then on april 27th the day we left to Toronto, everything started to happen, I started making mooves and we ended up hand in hand on top of the CN tower, It was one of the best days of my life. I asked her out and she tought about it during the long 6 hour busride back, and she came to see me and said, "Alex, I consider you as a brother, I really dont wanna loose you.. I love you alot so lets just say friends" At that time I realised I screwd up badly before christmas.. Then in June, of course my suposly "friend" Went and asked her out.. (He knew I loved her alot) And she said Yes.. since then my life has been miserable.. The only way I can make her not cry is tell her I like someone else, BUt that makes me cry almost 24/7 .. since then Ive not been eating half as much.. Im scared I just want it all to end someone please help
It's alright. We all make mistakes. As time goes by, people change. There are more fish in the sea and you're bound to meet someone new - possibly even better and be sure to not make the same mistake. (though if you do, it's okay, we're only human and all make mistakes)
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Darling, you look so beautiful to these invalid eyes of mine.
Its hard to decide who is gonna be a gf or a bff. I think you did the right thing. Enjoy your friendship with her, and forgive your friend who loves her. At least you know you have good taste in friends!
So, its on to a new love/life. Find someone you like talking to, and forget your bff as a 'lover.' Luck to you, my friend
I think having a friendship with her is better than nothing, right? And if she cries, then why is she dating that other guy and not you? But yeah, have a nice friendship with her. x ]
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