need your help im totally and completly in love. It was my last year of middle school this year and i fell in love. he was great he was so flirty and toughyy i felt really special when i was with him. for our graduation the school hosted a lock in at a sports club and to make along story short he ended up feeling me up. we talked about dating but he had just ended a bad relationship and he wasnt ready a couple of our friends sugested that we should be friends with bennifits which i initally blew off. i ended up regreting not saying yes so i stated texting him about it but he said he changed his mind because he didnt want to hurt me and he was to old hes turning 16 and im thurning 14. well on the night before the last day he texted me and said that he wanted to be fwb again i imedatly said yes and the next day we were going to hang out. three other people came with us and it was sorta akward because they kept trying to make us do stuff. but we did have fun we wrestled and he felt me up againg and other things of that nature but then the kiss. the two girls decided tht we needed to kiss and at first we said no but they said they would kiss first so we agreed well the 2 kiss we shared were confused filled with one mouth open and the other not. he texted melater and said we should just be friends again. i was crushed and he completly stoped talking to me so i gave in and texted him he said he didnt hate me then a few weeks ago we had a cute convorsation like we used to have but now hes back to not talking to me again. s should i call him or leave it im so confused

He's 16 and just now finishing middle school? He's 16 and messing around with a 13 year old? :-/

You're better of leaving things as is and just forgetting about him. It sounds like he's just using you. Eventually you'll get over him and you'll be glad you didn't pursue anything with him.

From what I can tell, you're not in love with this guy. I don't doubt you have strong feelings for him, but be careful what you call "love."

Anyway, I'd suggest talking to him. Ask him why he's not talking to you, if it was because of that day, if you did something wrong, if you made him feel uncomfortable, whatever. If he won't tell you, then move on.

~Maggot