Ok, so my name is Jack i am 17. There is this girl that i like soooo much her name is Haley she is absolutely the most beautiful person i have ever layed eyes on. I went out with her in the past, like back in 8th grade but it diddnt last long because neither of us were ready for a relationship i lost contact with her for a couple years but recently got re-introduced to her at a party. i would do anything for her. I literally feel i could walk to hell and back for her. First off i would like to tell you that she has a boyfriend currently. But after hanging out with her while she is with her boyfriend i see no connection between them at all. They dont talk. They dont really interact infact just yesterday her boyfriend had a little concert thing. She invited me to go with her. After the show they chatted for a minute and then he walked away with another girl. I felt bad for her but she diddnt seem to care. She likes me alot and i can tell. she always sits on my lap even when i have friends over and stuff. Last night i spent the night at her house. It ended up being a night of very very long back rubs and me whispering into her ear. She diddnt seem to mind at all. I just dont know if i should go for her while she has a boyfriend. You think maybe they do have some sort of connection but they just dont show it? Damn im so confused. She is friendly to all her friends that are boys but i feel like she pays me extra attention she always hugs me and not them. She plays with my hair and says its soft. When i go sit in a different place at a party she leaves her friends to join me. I want to go for her but i dont want to ruin her relationship with her current "boyfriend". plus i dont want him to hate me. I have the balls to ask her out. i just need some advice on what i should do and how i should do it.

dont be a priss, and ask her out. He doesnt seem to be pleasing her, and you seem like you can.

Well man its not really that im being a priss its that this is a one shot deal. If she says yes than my life goes jst great. But if she says no it would just be an akward friendship..

Yo sneak that shit yo.

Just go for it champ. From what you have told us it seems that she seems interested.

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I'd say go for it too, but rememebr she has a boyfriend. Go ahead and ask her ... but, make sure she does something about the boyfriend first. You don't want a situation later or anything.

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Yeah man, your giving her back rubs, whispering in her ear, sleeping over her house. That screams i fukin luv u. But again, does her b/f know you sleep over?

Well kinda, hes been there out the house when ive laid in her bed with her.

He saw me at his concert flirting with her and then going outside with her.

I mean its not like they hate eachother or something, they just seem like friends to me. ive never seen them kiss one time...ever.....or hug for that matter.

I think you should ask Haley what's up with her and her boyfriend, because it seems to me that they really are just friends. Ask her if she's happy with him and if she says yes, then you should back off from asking her out. If she says no, then ask her why she's still in the relationship. You don't owe Haley's boyfriend anything, so don't be afraid to get him upset. If you really like this girl, just make a move. Make sure you got the boyfriend situation under control, then ask her if she'd like to go out with you again. If you really like this girl and you want to be together with her, this is a chance you have to take.

Good luck.

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wow, similar to what I experienced. Best you show her that you care about her, that way you can get closer.

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If you've got a girl that seems like she likes you, don't wait too long. I mean seriously, go for it quick or else you'll lose out in the end. patience is not a virtue.

She definatley likes you. Talk to her.
And you might as well go for it, otherwise your just gona sit here thinking what if, and you will know where you stand once you've asked her or spoken to her.
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