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08-22-2008, 12:31 PM
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Name: Max Gender: Male Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Seattle, Washington Posts: 312
Money: 5,969 Last Online: Yesterday 11:58 PM My Mood: | Inter-Cliqueish Dating, Help Me I'm 16 years old, and going into my junior year in high school. I have dated a couple of different girls since middle school, but only because my friends have told me that the other girl liked me. I'm generally way to shy to ask a girl out, and it is causing me issues.
Since freshman year, and yes this was during those other relationships, I've had the biggest crush on this one girl, Stephanie. We have had a few classes together during those two years, and we talk and get along fine. Then coming towards the end of this last year, I've been getting a few signs that she might like me.
The only problem is that she and I run in totally different circles. I have no idea if she has a boy friend, or even really likes me that much. I just know I'll regret it if I don't at least give it a shot. So, here's the question, how do I go about asking her out, or figuring out if she does like me/has a bf?
Please, Help me out |
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08-22-2008, 04:52 PM
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Gender: Female Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: California Posts: 54,282
Money: 138,475 Last Online: Today 01:33 PM My Mood: | Re: Inter-Cliqueish Dating, Help Me the only way to really know is by asking her straight up. you should give it a shot, you really have nothing to lose. if not that, then try asking around. maybe go through friends to see if she has a bf. even if you do hang out with different people, theres always some sort of connection.
good luck.
__________________ Ask me anythinggg. I'm ready to give this all I have I'm ready to be amazed 'Cause I'm standing here alone
Trying to make this life my own And nothing will keep this heart from beating |
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08-22-2008, 05:21 PM
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Name: Ardıç Gender: Male Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Turkey Posts: 1,227
Money: 2,871 Last Online: 02-23-2009 08:58 PM | Re: Inter-Cliqueish Dating, Help Me You should ask her. Since you run in different groups, it won't change things a lot. Is she somebody you see every other day in lessons? You can just start with going to see her in breaks, talk about common interests, etc. One day you can just suggest to go see movies. But you shouldn't go without asking her anything, it will only cause you to regret.
Good luck! |
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08-22-2008, 10:33 PM
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Name: Max Gender: Male Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Seattle, Washington Posts: 312
Money: 5,969 Last Online: Yesterday 11:58 PM My Mood: | Re: Inter-Cliqueish Dating, Help Me Thank You both, I know I should just ask her straight up. I was just wondering if there's something I can/should do first to help give me that little boost of courage I need. I'm just so nervous.  |
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08-23-2008, 01:05 AM
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Name: Ardıç Gender: Male Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Turkey Posts: 1,227
Money: 2,871 Last Online: 02-23-2009 08:58 PM | Re: Inter-Cliqueish Dating, Help Me You should start talking with her a lot, but know when to talk so you don't actually bore her. When you have some talk going on, I think you'll have the courage  |
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08-23-2008, 03:16 AM
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Name: Max Gender: Male Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Seattle, Washington Posts: 312
Money: 5,969 Last Online: Yesterday 11:58 PM My Mood: | Re: Inter-Cliqueish Dating, Help Me Thank you very much, I've got to try, It's just so hard to get that courage for me when the answer to my question truly is an unknown. |
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08-23-2008, 03:18 AM
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Name: Ardıç Gender: Male Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Turkey Posts: 1,227
Money: 2,871 Last Online: 02-23-2009 08:58 PM | Re: Inter-Cliqueish Dating, Help Me You should get over it with time. Nobody was born confident, you have to build it up 
And, don't be concerned a lot about the answer. You'll find another girl even if she rejects. It's not the end of the world. |
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