ok so, I've been talking to this girl for like a month to a month and a half, and Ive had a crush on her for about that long. Well, last friday was homecoming and I danced with her at the dance, and thats when I told her how I felt. She had no idea I liked her. I then asked if she had a BF, she said yeah. Then we just kept dancing and she got closer and held onto me after the dance. What I later found out was, she had got a new BF the day before the dance. Then, my she confided in my friend that she really likes me. Since then, ive been talking to her alot more and walking with her between classes and calling her, and its really weird because shes still dating that guy... From what ive seen and heard it doesnt look like anything really serious, and if shes into me why is she with him? What should I do? because even though I love being around her, this cant go on forever.

You're completely right.
This CANT go on forever, not like this.
The best option in my perspective is to bring in the subject of her BF
and remind her about your feelings and how you've heard that she feels the same for you.
Then ask her if she herself believes that her current relationship is serious enough that the two of you wont be together.

Do it in your own words, ofcourse. But the best way is t otalk it out.
I always hear and say the same thing, but its true because by talking directly to one another is the only clear way to get the answers you seek.

good luck

well dont worry about it too much
shes just probably thinking
" should i dump him cuz i really like this other guy"
so ur not gonna be the one with questions.
shes probally still with him cuz she mite be confuzzed too.

i understand this has been going on for a while
its so weird cuz this was like my situatuin
execept mine was for a couples months
i really suggest to wait a little bit longer
like i did
but if u wanna act now

my answer is to just ask her about it
if it just gets to awkward change the subject
but if u do talk about it,maybe u guys
will start likin each other more

Sticky gum.

I feel for you man, I understand this sort of thing because one of my friends went through this situation and damn it hurt him =/

Things have to be straightened between you and her. It's true you can't go on like this, it'll be like she has you on a leash and when she gets hurt by her current boyfriend she'll run to you. And most likely if her and her boyfriend get better she'll go back to him. In a sense it's a good and bad thing. Good because it means you mean something to her. But bad because it's messing with your feelings, big time.

Talk with her, try talk about her current relationship and such and... Well to be fair I don't know. The whole "I like you, I'm single but you have a boyfriend" thing kind of ticks on my mind because of something personal. Just talk to her and try get an answer.

This can't go on and you need to let her know that. Tell her that if she really likes you she will end what she has with this other lad, if she refuses then you should try and forget about her otherwise you'll only end up getting hurt.
You were right, this can't go on forever, so the sooner you sort it the less chance you'll have of being hurt.

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Sort it out.
Her boyfriend needs to know, otherwise he could end up hurt.

Best way is to talk to her about it.