Okay so lol I am going out with my girlfriend but we haven't done anything but talk really ... no holding hands .. no hug/kiss any of that ... I want to but I am shy... and bad at flirting ... :P so I am wondering what I should do if I want to do more than talk and such... we are going bowling this sunday and wondering what should I do to get more than talking or should I just say fuck it to my shyness and just put my arm around her or take her hand or lol :P I know she likes me and she pokes me in school and smiles/laughs with me all the time when I talk and she almost seems dissapointed that I don't ask her to do other things / be more intimate with her so yahh... help please. , thanks.

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I think you should just go for it. She obviously does like you if she's your girlfriend. If you're unsure then just start off slow by putting your arm around her. Do what comes natural. Don't let your shyness hold you back, just relax and don't think about it too much.
good luck

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Jasmine

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when you see her ,stand in front of and have your head bended down.
however she responds just lean into her shoulder and start rubbing your head against her shoulder
not that long
just long enough to be cute keep you head down and reach for her hand
hold it and sorta grasp her fingers ,move your fingers around, and and give her hand a quick squeeze. DONT LET GO after quick squeeze
then look up at her in her eyes.

if you could pull it off its magic

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"Something to relieve the pressures of their everyday life, like having to tie their shoes. "

Yes, rest your head on her soldier.

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"Something to relieve the pressures of their everyday life, like having to tie their shoes. "

lol that is pretty cute.

It seems like she's waiting for you to make the first move. When me and my boyfriend first started dating, the way how I showed him I wanted to hold hands is that I would link arms with him and made a note to not let go. When we got to a crowded area I did have to and as I let go he actually took my hand :P

Of course, that works better for a girl than a guy, so here's something you can try with your girlfriend. When I want to hold hands with my boyfriend these days I run a finger down his forearm before taking his hand, so you can try that with her, but it might be kinda hard to pull off if there's a big height difference. So, if you're gonna try it, try it when you're sitting down.

Something else you can do is when you guys are sitting on the bus or in the car or whatever mode of transportation you're taking that has you two sitting next to each other, put your arm on the back part of the chair if possible. She'll probably rest her head on your shoulder :P

Oh oh, and when you're going to say goodbye to her, start off by giving her small hugs. Then when you get enough courage you can give her a small peck on the cheek, then move on to the lips.

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Hehe thanks for the help peeps keep posting =)

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^tell us when you make a move

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"Something to relieve the pressures of their everyday life, like having to tie their shoes. "

Grow some nuts man you dont have to make such a big deal out of it. once you make some sort of move the rest will just come naturally. you said you were going bowling. so maybe when ur walking to the lane or w.e grab her hand. no big deal. after that she will know ur trying to make a move and the rest will just come. simple.. same thing i did. GOOD LUCK

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Just do what comes to mind. The next time you see her, while infront of her grab both her hands gently, slowly rub her fingers and gaze deep into her eyes then kiss her gently on the lips.

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Lol okay so the date went great we went bowling then got some icecream at a place near by it then went into madison and played some laser tag which was pretty kickass lol I could tell she wanted me to make a move but lol I didnt.. but it was still fun and all but after I texted her this

Me: Do you mind if I hold her hand? I was a bit nervous but I want to.

Her: Yes hold my hand

Me: =) I had a good time tonight, did you?

Her: Yes we should do it again, I cant wait to c u tomorrow

So lol that part makes me feel even better about it .. so tomorrow I am going to walk up to her and hug her =) and then walk her to class holding hands.

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^chessy

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"Something to relieve the pressures of their everyday life, like having to tie their shoes. "

Good job man, i had the same problem as before. My ex and i went to some kind of arcade and my other friend was like she likes you, and i should make the first move. I got scared, but i held her hand, and the rest of the night was just been really close, like hugging her, holding hands and etc.