SugarRush

* = The names are made up...coz I don't really like saying my friends real names online.

Okay....I'm gonna write bout 4 months of my past relationship problems in the space of 10 mins so please bare with me lol.

I broke up with my boyfriend Lloyd* last February and my mate Mark* [...well he's now my ex bf lol] was flirting with me constantly after we broke up.

So me and Mark went through a little flirting session for bout a month...mostly when we were drunk but there ya go lol.

I eventuraly went out with Mark in the begining of March...so everything seemed fine.

Later onwards he kept [...I can't really say bugging =/] but asking me to have sex with him loads [at the time I was 15 and I just didn't really wanna tbh]

So I broke up with him in the end of April but went back out with him like a week later coz I felt kinda guilty bout the way I dumped him and I wanted to try again.

So that day when we got back together we went camping....there was drink involved and we ended up doing...stuff lol [pretty much everything but sex]

So....I assumed everything was fine after that and that he still wanted to go out with me.

I didn't see him again for bout a week coz I was grounded and he was revising for his GCSEs....but the day we seen eachother again he dumped me and said we weren't working out =/

The only thing that pissed me of bout that is that something obviously went through his head the night we went camping that told him we weren't working, yet he still allowed stuff to happen =/

So now I'm single again...but lately he is constantly fucking with my head....telling me "we should go back out" "I love you" and hugging me loads one second then saying "we should move on" and acting all pissed of with me the next =/

He is fucking with my head constantly lately, it's so annoying!

I just don't know what to think of him anymore =/

....Once again soz for the long thread lol.

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AffairesRisque

He's just being an idiot. He is trying to "play" you, but you can't let him get to you. That's what he wants. Just ignore him, and let him be immature about it. You don't need to be around someone like that.

SugarRush

Thank you for the advice it really helps.

I just don't get him anymore =/
at all.

He used to a person who was quite easy to understand. But now I have no idea about what he wants from me at all.

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Hollow'sHeart67

its funny how some guys are like that they just idk play with relationships acutally theres nothing funny about it there just retarded cause other people could like that person and mean it with everything they got but there takin by someone who just wants to have sex or likes them cause there hot
thats kinda where i am

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xxXRawrHelloKittyxxX

It seems like he is playing you. And you seem to notice that. He only wants sex and you aren't giving it to him. And don't. He isn't fucking worth it. Wait for someone that means that world to you. Forget about this player.

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Magic&Madness

Meet up with him and just simply tell him to stop f*cking you about.

ClandestineXEmo

Dear, it seems like he wants sex. Plain and simple. And because you won't give him sex, he feels the need to be "king of the jungle" and screw around with you until you comply. Just...don't let him get to you. You don't want to have sex with him just to make him happy and then regret it.

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Why do we play into this motive?
What are you waiting for tonight?
You wonder, you wait and you can't get through this without a line.

AffairesRisque

A-fucking-men. xD

SugarRush

S'pouse.

I honestly thought he was a good friend of mine =(
We were good friends for bout 5 months before we got together.

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Rachel

It sounds like he just wants one thing from you and he keeps dumping you when he doesn't get it.

You need to talk it out with him and if that doesn't work. I would tell him to saty out of your life and leave you alone so you can meet new people and get on with your life.

SugarRush

But the one thing I don't get is...if he is just looking for sex then why did he dump me after we done stuff. =/ I mean we probably would have had sex that night if we had a condom.

If he really wants to have sex with me wouldn't he have stayed going out with me until we had sex.

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maqi

he is really really big idiot he thinks that he can have you and than dump you like nothing happened! you should forget about him or you should think of something to fuck up with his brain. he is such a pig so why don't you treat him like that?

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SugarRush

lol he is still my mate deep down so I don't wanna treat him badly.

Today he was annoying me again =/
I know he was messing around but he kept flirting with me and trying to feel me up.

So eventuraly I screamed "stop groaping me!" and hit him =/ teehee lol.

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FutureNavyMan08

He's treating you like cheap meat. Face it: this guy is not a friend, he just wants your body. He's a perverted fool that doesn't know when to stop and is too horny for his own good.

SugarRush

I would stop being friends to him but I know for a fact it would effect my relationship with my best friend [coz he's my ex's best friend too]

I just don't understand why he does stuff like that when he knows I feel uncomfortable.

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