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01-01-2009, 05:35 AM
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Money: 1,193 Last Online: 03-15-2010 08:01 AM | Mixed signals I like this guy and he knows this.
He always blushes when my friends talk to him about me and surprisingly he doesn't get annoyed.He gives me "the look" if I'm far enough away but when I am close he doesn't even lift his head.His friends almost always whisper stuff about me and then he looks at me.I see his friends and they try to force him into talking to me but he just won't do it.Seeing that makes me think he doesn't really want to talk to me .He also likes to look at me while he talks to his little female friends.The thing is I wasn't even paying that much attention to him and then he wants to observe again.It crushes me though but he wouldn't know that atleast I don't think.Then there is the times in eighth period.He sits behind me.When we do group activities I'm ignored while everyone else gets hi fives and things like that.
Recently I texted him.Then "some person" was like this isn't so and so and that is his number.I'm absolutely positive!I just don't get why he would do that.Maybe it's some little game.So I just replied whatever.Or maybe i got the number wrong.
I feel like he acts different towards me then he does to everyone else and don't tell me to just talk to him because i'm on break.I have to wait.
I know he is shy.Please tell me something I don't know because what does shyness translate into? like or nothing 
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01-01-2009, 06:00 AM
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Name: Adam Gender: Male Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 213
Money: -783 Last Online: 10-11-2009 10:21 AM My Mood: | Re: Do you think he likes me because I'm getting mixed signals? Hey, I know how you feel. "Reading" the people you like is probably the hardest thing to do when it comes to relationships. You (everyone) pick up on every little thing that the person does and it all inevitably contradicts itself. Heres what I get from this:
I see a REALLY shy guy, that has no idea what to do. He probably at least likes you a little (if he didnt like you in that way hewould probably treat you like everyone else. Also, if he hates you, he probably wouldnt ignore you completely (nor would his friends want him to talk to you)) So, what do you do now? Believe it or not, you have a few options:
1)Wait until school starts again, and try to initiate conversation.
2)Get his number from a mutual friend and text/call him. Maybe he will be less nervous over the phone? Maybe you can organize to meet up with him over break?
As for getting the wrong phone number from him...When he gave it to you, did you put it into your phone or did he? Maybe you mistyped it? Or maybe he did and didn't notice? Also, it's possible that you accidentally went into that entry and changed a digit ( have done that before). My point is that there are tons of reasons you could have the wrong number, none of which involve him being an a**hole.
Good luck and Happy New Year. Keep us posted on how this works out.
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01-01-2009, 06:12 AM
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Name: Andrew Gender: Male Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,216
Money: 8,156 Last Online: Today 12:20 PM My Mood: | Re: Do you think he likes me because I'm getting mixed signals? maybe he's just shy
i know i am lol. i'm way too nervous to make a move on a girl that i like. -_- it sucks. |
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01-01-2009, 06:25 AM
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Money: 1,193 Last Online: 03-15-2010 08:01 AM | Re: Do you think he likes me because I'm getting mixed signals? I swear he talks to EVERYONE but ME. |
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01-01-2009, 06:26 AM
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Name: Andrew Gender: Male Join Date: Dec 2008 Location: Ohio Posts: 1,216
Money: 8,156 Last Online: Today 12:20 PM My Mood: | Re: Do you think he likes me because I'm getting mixed signals? well exactly, he probably has a crush on you and is too shy to talk to you :shrug: |
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01-01-2009, 06:30 AM
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Gender: Female Join Date: Jan 2008 Posts: 536
Money: 1,496 Last Online: 03-06-2010 03:06 AM My Mood: | Re: Do you think he likes me because I'm getting mixed signals? He obv likes u , hes jus shy , or 2 nervous 2 say anything 2 u xxx |
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01-01-2009, 06:50 AM
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Name: annemarie Gender: Female Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 577
Money: 1,634 Last Online: 07-30-2009 02:11 PM My Mood: | Re: Do you think he likes me because I'm getting mixed signals? I had the same thing happen to me last year. But I think I acted the same way toward him, maybe that's what caused our relationship to be that way. But he would talk to everyone but me. His friends would always whisper about me and he'd look. He use to stare at me for periods at a time and then turn away when he realized I noticed.
I ended up being his girlfriend due to the fact that I had liked him for about two years. I decided to make a move and tell him. I didn't do it face to face though. I simply wrote him a letter telling how I felt and asking if he felt the same way. A few weeks later, I learned through some of my friends that he liked me. [He was closer to them than me]. Two weeks later we're dating.
But devs711 is right. Reading people is hard. Specially people who act like that. I think he's just shy, you might as well make a move since you have evidence that he might like you.
Good luck! =)
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01-01-2009, 08:50 AM
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Name: Kase Gender: Female Join Date: Dec 2008 Posts: 1,440
Money: 3,167 Last Online: 07-01-2009 08:21 AM My Mood: | Re: Mixed signals Generically, it can be one of two things. He can either be too shy to talk to you, and tries to avoid you in the hopes that he doesn't make a mistake and come off as "uncool". Otherwise, he's using your feelings to his advantage and playing hard to get. I suggest you get his real text number from a friend, and use it to get to know him better. Don't let his reactions sidetrack you, or nothing will be achieved. You have to make the first move. Be cautious, and observe his actions. If when you've communicated more and he still acts the same way, eventually you'll be able to tell awkwardness from arrogance. If not, then continue to build on your friendship until one of you can muster up the courage to go out on a date.
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