***Yesss I posted about this same guy before, if toy remember....***

I have been seeing this guy for about 2 and a half months and he is so bossy! He is sometimes controlling. I am totally ok with how things are now but I'm wondering if it could be more than just him being bossy? like if he could actually get violent int he future.

* He always tells me to "be good" and "don't get into any trouble, like he doesn't trust me"
*If he calls me and I'm not home he gets kinda angry and always has to know where i am and what im doing
*When someone else calls me he has to know who it is.
*When I'm going down on him if i dont let him touch me or i do something to make him "upset" he forces me to gag on his D***(I don't mind, I like it : )
*He YELLED at me once because I wouldnt give him head while he was ont he phone with one of his employees.

So what do u all think? he says he's just being bossy, not to be mean thats just how he is. I dont mind that I'm just a little worried that he could change it up in the future? Please give me ur opinions.


One other thing:
*I'm 17 and hes 30 (I know I know EW! I dont wanna hear that)

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Watch [[what]] you do, and [[who]] you do it to.
Cuz right before you know it, they'll do it back to [[you]]

that guy is idiot

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Wow. Um I am not sure what to tell you.

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I know what to tell you. Tell that guy to take a hike. It may be that bad now, imagine if you guys got married :O Fuck yeah girl, get out of there while you still can. The longer you're in a bad relationship, the harder it is to get out, and the less likely you will be to get out, and stay out. He'll definately tell you he's sorry, and that he'll change, and all that stuff, but he doesn't mean it. If he meant it, he wouldn't be acting like that in the first place.

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Yeah, what honeybear said is so true.

If you like older guys alright. But he is way older and its fully okay once your 18 but right now your parents have concent on it basically I do believe.

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actually in my state the age of consent is 16, so its totally legal.

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Watch [[what]] you do, and [[who]] you do it to.
Cuz right before you know it, they'll do it back to [[you]]

The age thing isn't the issue here, though. My Mom was in an abusive relationship and she always told me this: If a man yells at you, he'll grab you. If he grabs you, he'll push you. If he pushes you, he'll hit you. If he hits you once, he'll do it again.

I know that's not true for every guy, but just be careful.

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brodie: ladies and gentleman, this tall drink of water headed my way is a pillar of the shopping community who informed me earlier today of a nefarious plan of his to screw my girlfriend in an extremely uncomfortable place
gil: what, like the back of a volkswagen? -MALLRATS

I know age isn't a big deal but that's too far of a gap. And I'm sure he will do more. Like Jenn said. I would leave because he isn't worth it. Guys your age might be immature but I'm sure they won't fucking hit you.

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didnt u post this already as "Am I his Other Woman"? is this the guy with the kids still or someother dude twice as old as you? cause i still think that its still to big an age differnce and he seems like hes just using you for sex and pleasure from what youve said at least. i think hes more mature and is just being unresponsible for the age difference and takin advantage of you but thats just me i think you should get out of there cause it seems to have gotten worse and hes tryin to force you into it now

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So You Say You Love Her? Then why are you sitting at the computer and not holding her in your arms telling her how much she means to You? Cause I Bet theres another Kid Out There Who's Dieing to Be Where You Are..... I No I Am

i honestly think you should get out of that relationship
i totally agree with honeybear

Thanks you guys. But seriously, age doesn't matter when it comes down to it. It's all about how he's treating you. And like Jenn said.. the warning signs are there, it just depends on if you act on them, before it's too late.

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