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Old 06-04-2007, 04:45 AM   #1 (permalink)
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Too old?

is it weird for a 16 year old girl to date a 18 year old guy?
what about a 16 yr old girl dating a 19 year old guy? 21?

Where would be the limit????
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Re: Too old?

na dat aint 2 old

my limit is under 5 years, if its over den dats where i draw da line but dats only coz im 14

wen i was 13 i went out wit a 17 yr old
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Re: Too old?

When I was 13 I dated an 18 year old.
Then was I was 15 I dated a few 18 year olds, and had a fling-ish with a guy who was 27 (but it was like sexual).
I just broke it off with a guy who was 19, dated a guy who was 18, and some other things.

I don't think that 16 and 19 are a bad age, 20 isn't either but even though the numbers aren't that far apart there's a lot of aging between 20 and 16. Which can really put the two people in the relationship on different pages, and have trouble understanding each other at certain times.
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Old 06-04-2007, 10:48 AM   #4 (permalink)
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Re: Too old?

my limit as a 16 yr old would be 18. but thats me
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Old 06-04-2007, 11:21 AM   #5 (permalink)
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Re: Too old?

i was 16 going out with a 21 yr old. that said he was married and that he was going to divorce her for me. But he was just using me for sex
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Re: Too old?

Well, as a 16yr old...i guess my limit owuld be...20. lol Though I certinaly wouldn't say no if, say, Gerard Way cam knocking on my door. haha
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Re: Too old?

nah Im 17 and i had a serious relationship with a guy that is 23. but it was hard cause people assume things. and i wasnt that comfy being around all his friends cause theyd be like why are you dating a 17 year old, you could have anyone (he was really hot/popular) and all my friends were like he's taking advantage of you...but it wasnt like that at all...i had to dump him eventually cause it was too hard to keep our relationship together but i dont think theres actually anything wrong with it, it can just be a lot of work.
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Re: Too old?

Well, it really depends on the sitchuation (that was spelled wrong. lol)
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Re: Too old?

Age doesn't matter. You can be a few years apart or a lot. But it depends on the situation and the way you guys act. And the maturity level of each other. I wouldn't support going behind your parents back just to date some loser that will problaby dump you after he gets what he wants. Now that is the main case. Not all the time but it has been shown in half of the cases where young girls get into older, full grown relationships. I would have to put an age limit on me. I wouldn't date anyone over 25.
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There's no limit for love...
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Re: Too old?

I disagree with that sentence so much. There is a limit.
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Re: Too old?

i'm 16, my ex is 20. before we got together i was like no way i can not do this. and then when we were together there was nothing wrong with it. i guess our levels of maturity kinda levelled out in the end. now im kinda regretting it again. plus he tries making me feel guilty and shit for hurting him [he broke up with me without any explanation by the way] so yeah, i just let him think i feel bad. and then he thinks i dont know that hes using me.

fuck the age. think about the maturity.
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each person has it's own limit... my boyfriend is 10 years older than i am... I love him all the same... my limit is 20years...
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each person has it's own limit... my boyfriend is 10 years older than i am... I love him all the same... my limit is 20years...
good for you i have dated older and younger who cares just have fun
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is it weird for a 16 year old girl to date a 18 year old guy?
what about a 16 yr old girl dating a 19 year old guy? 21?

Where would be the limit????
i really wouldnt know since i too have that problem is 13 dating a jsut turned 18 year old bad..i know its illegal or something. but he hasnt done anything wrong and is not perverted..we share real feelings and we dont care of how we look or anything with apperance.
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