Ok here goes, just looking for some advice as to what I can/should do next.

Basically this is the story.

Met a girl last November time, developed a crush on her, we went out someplace in a big group but ended up flirting all night, then everyone didn't stop asking us for the next 3/4 weeks if we were together etc. etc.
I've been told on numerous occasions that shes told people she likes me.

Anyway 5/6 weeks ago I hinted I liked her, and she said "Do you like me or something? Because I like you" so I told her I did.

Anyway we spoke for the next few weeks about everything, and spoke ALL the time, and my feelings for her have just grown and grown.

I asked her what she would say if i asked her out (spur of the moment thing) and she said she owuld say yes, so I asked her out and she said "dunno"

Firstly she said it was the amount of work/exams she had coming up.
Then she said it was because she'd been hurt before and thought she'd get close to me and i'd hurt her.

anyway one week I was a little off with her, and she said it wasn't gonna work cos I stopped talking to her properly and if i did i had the face on, I apologised but didnt really recover from this position.

Anyway she rings me and says sorry if she upset me (cos she told me it wouldnt work) but I was out, and we never spoke, I met another girl who turned out to be her friend, and she found out, and said when she rasng me she was gonna say she thougth we woul dget together in the summer after all her work.

She insisted she still iked me but didnt have time for a relationship at the moment, she spoke for about 2 and a half hours on the phone.

Basically thats it.

My past relationships haven't been something where I've had strong feelings, I've always understood they wouldnt last and they were just a bit of fun.

This time I REALLY like her alot, and am struggling with it badly.

Should I stick in there? because she insists she still ikes me? or what?

Thanks for reading this, if you ahven't fallen asleep haha

love takes a lot of work. and if you reallyy care about her and you want it to work than you're going to have to tryy hard. because trying hard and never giving up is the base of all good relationships. but it doesnt just work one wayy. tell her that if she likes you and that if she is thinking about being in a relationship with you that she is going to have to put some effort in as well because you're not going to do all the work to have a good relationship by yourself and get no help in return and end up with a broken heart because that is not how it should be.
so just tryy taking my advice and fill me in on how it works out.


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if you like her that much there shouldent be a choice you should already no that your gunna wait and support her till she has time. you cant say you really like her when you have a chance and all you have to do is wait for her to have time but your thinking about quitting. and on the other end when she realizes you waited for her the whole time faithfully shell trust you to not hurt her.

I know I will end up waiting, the problem is that its 6 weeks til her work is finished, and then I'm away for 3 weeks, so its 9 weeks I'd be waiting, and I know feelings can change in that time so I don't want to wait for her to not be there and get hurt at the end of it, BUT I think shes worth it and will wait.

We're always talking, flirting, laughing, but she keeps sayin shes no time for a boyfriend.

What I don't get is everyone else manages to work relationships around work/exams without a problem so whys it different this time?

And I have thought about the probability shes leading me on, but the one time I mentioned that she burst into tears and insisted she isn't.....

I just don't know what to do lol

Listen,if she really likes u,she wouldnt be doin this,if she really cares abt u,she'd sacrefice with anythin just 2 work this realtionship out!
im not sayin she's liein,but i can say that....she's makin 2 as a...OPTIONS...maybe she likes sum1..mayeb she has a bf..but they'r not just too close everyday..so when they have a fight she thinks of u..and she'll be sayin dat once we brock up ( with her bf) she'll get with u...cz exams,work,or anythin in world..cant prevent 2 lovers, 2 REAL lovers from their luv..love's stonger then anythin but dis advise goes IF she really likes u,and if ur nt sure...ask her..be honnest with her..tell her i cant wait 4 u cz i love,,,my chance with u might go..cz i know that saperats and distance create some ignoring nd unloved stuff..that's why i dont wanna lose 2 tell me if i must wait 4 u or just turn my back leavin pure memories...that im sure it wouldnt last if u didnt love me really from da first place..JUST BE HONNEST 2GETHER...i hope i could help!....tell me abt what happened okey?

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