I've got an ex who moved a few states away almost a year ago. Everything was amazing & more perfect than words could say. Then he moved. He's been able to move on w/ a few girls & I'm finally able to have my first boyfriend since him. He's came back to visit 2 times. The first was ackward b/c we'd just broken up. But this time...it was like we were back together b/c we held hands & he put his arm around me 24/7 while he was here. We're still as in Love as ever, for sure. But I've got a bf now and I refuse to cheat. Don't get me wrong, I'm crazy for my bf. When my ex is here though, he's all I can think about & I forget my bf. But he's never here.
What do u do in a situation like this?? Do I break up w/ my bf since I'm still completely in Love w/ my ex? Or continue on w/ my current bf, despite the fact I still Love my ex since I never get to see him?

This is the real answer.

heres a few things:
does your boyfriend know about this?
if not, you should talk to him about it, and tell him how you feel.
if they were hanging one in each of your hands, who would you save right now?
"it was like we were back together b/c we held hands & he put his arm around me 24/7 while he was here. We're still as in Love as ever, for sure. But I've got a bf now and I refuse to cheat."
that sounds kind of like cheating to me.

to answer the question, be with who you care about more.

You should forget about your old boyfriend, even though you love him. If you date him then there is a possiblity that he could cheat on you since you live away from each other.

Not totally forget, but think if that is the guy u wanna love forever.... if not, move on.

Thanks guys.

No he doesn't know. He can tell I haven't let go of my ex, but that's it. He doesn't know that we hungout. It's not that I don't want him to know, it's just that it's done and over with, and he'll be better off not knowing. That's just how he is

He is the guy that I want to love forever though. And as far as the cheating because he's far away thing...not even a worry. He wouldn't; everyone that knows him knows that.

Ever think about dating them both at the same time......?

threesome....

get over him. simple as that.

Forget about your Ex

No way, definitely not. Especially because of the simple fact that they hate each other...

yeah you need to ask yourself why you guys broke up in the first place. Was it only because he moved? And why didn't you try a long-distance relationship? I still love my ex, and we broke up 5 years ago. But some things are just NOT meant to be, and I've learned that. It helped me grow as a person. Guys come and go, you've moved on, he's moved on, you're both just clinging to residual feelings. I think I agree with everyone else when they say forget about your ex and stick with your current bf. If it's too hard to see your ex and not want to be with him, stop seeing him. When he comes into town next time, tell him you're busy, you can't see him. Eventually those feelings will go away, but it'll take time.

Be open with them, they might be able to help.

thatand thatand thatand thatwere exactly what i was thinking.

lol $ air $. I'm number one!!! haha :P

Lol...yup, you are! I know where you're coming from, that's why.

And plus, when I press multi-quote, it puts the earliest post at the top and then goes down in unchronological order. I was gonna put them all in order of what I was agreeing with the most anyways, but then I saw yours at the top and left the rest. Lol. I still think Curtis had a really valid point. I tend to make points like that to people aswell, and then they tell me to shut up.

Talking of Curtis...where is he?