i am heart broken please help

chat girl · 05-25-2009, 03:35 AM

i am a seventh grader and i like this eigth grader but he's always treating me bad like calling me mean names and i get really mad and he always apoligizes and i always end up forgiving him but i don't think he likes me cuz he has a girlfriend and he's always talking about her but i don't know what to do there's only 1 week left of school should i tell him that i like him and hope 4 the best reaction or should i just keep it to myself

laxin · 05-25-2009, 04:09 AM

So he's a dick to you, has a girlfrien, and doesn't show interest?

Doesn't sound like you're in a good situation here. I'd find someone else to go after.

Aunt Jemima · 05-25-2009, 04:11 AM

Heart broken? Pick one.

I Promise · 05-25-2009, 05:00 AM

It must be a hard situation to be in. I think there's 2 ways of looking at it. Some would tell you to walk away and stop thinking about this boy, he's mean to you and calling you names, you can do better than him and he's being nasty. On the other hand, sometimes it might mean he does like you, and he's being nasty because he's got a girlfriend and feels angry because he doesn't have you.

I don't know, it's impossible for me to know the answer. You could tell him how you feel, and see what he does. If he breaks up with his girlfriend, then good. If not, then you know where you stand. But then again, you will have their break up on your conscience. Not sure if you'd feel bad or not

ameera-creme · 05-25-2009, 05:03 AM

it's kinda obvious if he treats yo bad has a girlfriend and is always talking about her

then leave him alone and find some one else to chase after--someone who likes you

and ppl wonder how women get into abusive relatioships

SugarrBum · 06-05-2009, 12:30 AM

Wellllllllllllll, if you want my opinion, find someone else

Brighteyes · 06-05-2009, 02:25 AM

If I were you, I would keep as far away from him as possible.
He has a gf so why should he show any real interest in you, unless he is trying to be macho and string you both along.
I know it sounds harsh and it might hurt deep down inside you, but you know you can do so much better, than chasing an idle dream.

mjdm · 06-05-2009, 03:10 AM

To be honest girl id keep it too myself even if he did like you, hes showing it the wrong way. Just try too move on the best that you can.

DR.Hamza · 06-05-2009, 03:17 AM

try to talk to him if he does some stupid thing again then leave him and find some one new

3bubble · 06-05-2009, 08:45 PM

I'll give you my very honest opinion.
You're going to regret it if you don't ask him out
It's going to be a shit feeling pops up in your skewl life.
it's going to bug and annoy you
but the guys a real doooosh and your in primary skewl. who gives an eggshell cuz serious realtionships start in grade 12+

Root_beer_junkie · 06-06-2009, 12:00 PM

Does he actually have a girlfriend? Or is he just trying to make you jealous?

It is possible that he's just trying to get your attention. In that case, it would be a good idea to ask him out.

However, if he really does have a girlfriend (try finding out from one of his friends), then you should stay away. But not completely. Be patient, try to make friends with him. When they break up (and they will, trust me), he'll be yours for the taking.

Note: If the breakup is particularly nasty, and his feelings get hurt, it'd be better to wait a little before asking him out. But don't wait too long, or someone else'll snatch him!

Another Note: If, for some reason, he says no (or does something stupid like that), then just move on. Boys are usually immature until college at the earliest. Don't get too badly heartbroken over one immature, stupid boy.

armyforthebroken · 06-06-2009, 12:11 PM

Honestly, you can do much better. Considering the fact that you are pretty young, you have a lot of time ahead of you to meet new people who will reciprocate your feelings. I don't mean to judge your situation, but it just seems to me that you're wasting your time on this guy who you said does not have feelings for you.

If he's calling you mean names and is treating you badly, it probably means he's disinterested. You have next school year and the years after that to find someone who you're really into and who you can invest your time in.

So my best suggestion is to let him go and move on. Maybe focus on school for right now, since you are twelve or thirteen years old and then boys? Because if you worry about boys, then you might slip in school and it can really affect your future.

Good luck.