Me and my girlfriend Erin have been going out for 3 months. Finally a good girl in my life. My last relationship lasted a year some how. I don't know if you guys member seeing all my depressing posts about her and the posts to work in the denial that she was cheating. Well my ex was cheating haha we used to fight all the time. Now that i've been with erin we get in small disagreements but they last for no longer then 30 mins and the honey moon stage is over by the way it was wicked lovey in the beginning and slowed down but still all good . Anyways no fighting really she actually is herself around me(hard to believe) most girls my age try and act dumb for some reason around guys or like they cant do anything for themselves.

One bad thing i'll deal with but annoying. Her dad, he doesn't want us being effectionate around him. I'm not her first boyfriend but i am the first boyfriend her parents met. They love me don't get me wrong but her dads a bit protective. He doesn't make it known to me but tells her and of course she tells me because she gets upset. So i'm annoyed by that but explained to her its fine its not like we need to be all cuddily and junk 24/7 and he lets us hang in her room alone as long as the doors open atleast half way. Her dad doesn't bug as at all he'll yell down to her instead of walking in. Of course we make out and other stuff etc etc but we know not to do anything TOO sexual.

Her mom loves me and loves that i'm good to her little 6 year old brother and get along with her 12 year old brother as well. 6 year olds are ANNOYING did i mention that. Yeah 6 year olds are the exact reason why teenagers should not have kids young. THey'll drive you crazy if your not a mature adult with patients. Some how Erin's patient with him but sometimes i'm not and can get stressed. Hes a good kid though and that stage will stop eventually.(anyone have an idea of when that stage ends :P).

Me and Erin are sexually active. I was her first and she wasn't my first but shes ok with that she understands i thought i was inlove and i'm a teenage boy...we're naturally horny little dudes wanting to do that. But with her its just not sex like it was with kirsten. Me and kirsten(my ex) would have sex over and over and it was definetly lust and not love. I still can't believe i was that big of an idiot to trust her. I trust erin but i let her know it'll take time to trust her fully because of my ex, I know not every girl is the same and erin is different from them all for me but still have the small fear. But good new its slowly vanishing.

Her family all together(aunts,uncles,grandma,grandpa, and of course mom dad and bros) all enjoy my company and its funny her aunts when they first met me were talking about how cute i am(they ment by looks but mostly they way i am) I went to her 4 year old counsins b-day and the little kids were all hanging with me just joking around messing around with me and they seemed to love me. I don't think i could have anything any other way because i feel like i met the one girl i wanna be with. I'm going into my junior year with 2 years left and college. I know what i want to do in my life for future like job and stuff ands hes becoming apart of my future


-Tmac

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I think he was just filling us in on his happiness since he posted threads back in the day when he was depressed. I actually wish more members would do this.

That's great to hear. I'm happy for you. I hope everything continues to go well.

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Nice!

Haha keep it going my man. Sounds like you've got a good thing here

Yeah its a pretty good thing going :P And shes not a spoiled little girl like My Ex so i dont have to spend every cent i got on her

Your ex was a spoiled little girl eh? Did you spank her and give her what she deserves? haha..either way congratulations man and keep it up

Thank you, and no i couldn't even tickle her lol. I did infront of her mom once and my ex was yelling NO dont stop cuz she was getting tickled and her mom goes " TONY STOP NO MEANS NO" lmao Crazy family.

Get this

My ex when we broke up 2 days later she had sex with some senior on my football team he was 18 and she was 15 and he was a pervert that goes after freshman. So they had a thing for 3 weeks and one day when she was mad at him he came to her house and she called the cops and said he raped her. I tried to tell him shes crazy and he didnt believe me. She almost ruined his life. haha shes a bad person

She is bad someone needs to stick it too her and I don't mean sexually . She'll get what she deserves someday.

wow! that's great! stay happy and inlove

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First off. arguments are natural and it happens, I'd rather be arguing with my girl over something than having her being implode-like and never being able to hear what she truly thinks on matters. Arguing sucks, but the majority of the teens confuse arguing for being unhappy or incompatible, which sometimes this is true, but it is essential for an open communication-like relationship. Without communication, feelings will store up which never will be able to be relinquished, I just wished to clear this up with you.

As to her parents, if he doesn't wish for you be affectionate, do not be affectionate. Ultimately, she is his daughter and though this sucks as well, oblige to his concerns - you are a teenager, correct?

Erin shouldn't be punished because of your ex. If you didn't trust your ex, that is fine, but she has nothing to do with Erin and eventually Erin will be annoyed with your assertions. If you are unable to trust women, you shouldn't have entered this relationship and if you constantly remind her your mistrust in women is due to a FORMER WOMAN whom has nothing to do with her, she will get fed up with you. It is time you realize everyone is different, don't blame an entire sex merely because of one retarded girl. If you truly care for her, you need to move on quickly. It has been three months now, if there is no trust it might be you, not women. I just hope not to see you on these forums posting you lost her because she was offended for logical means, thus I wish you good luck and I am happy to see you off on the right start.

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Yeah im sure they are arguments and not being unhappy because i couldnt be happier. Along with a girlfriend she lets me have a life. And yeah her dad said that he doesnt want me kissing her and stuff like that infront of him but holding hands is ok.


This is true i guess your right she shouldn't be punished. And i guess no girl is the same and kirsten was just a liar. I think ur right, time to forget about being hurt and look at the facts. Erin hasn't hurt me and assures me she wont =]I'm glad u posted this to stop my ignorance. Since i was hurt i thought every girl was like that but its not like that and ur letting me know this as well as she did.

THank you =]

Indeed man, you seem like a good kid - listen to yourself, she CRIED rape. Not every woman is like this, if it helps, I had an ex do this (Not to me)..I am not involved with my beautiful girlfriend for well over a year now (Can see pictures in profile).

You're good to go bro, hopefully things will be cool between the two of ya.

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